Opinion & Analysis
The 10 best things about playing golf alone

A rarity in sports, golf can be properly played and thoroughly enjoyed when utterly alone.
There is something alluring — romantic even — about heading to your local course and playing 18 holes by yourself. It’s a silent battle, just you and the course slugging it out away from prying eyes. It’s a chance to do things your way.
In praise of the solo round, here’s a list of the 10 best things about playing alone. Feel free to add your own thoughts in the comments section.
No. 1: Fast Play
Solitary golfers can play fast, because they aren’t forced to waste time watching someone else play.
As a single, there is no waiting for your playing partner to hit, no need to remain greenside while he or she putts out and certainly no protracted search for that ProV1 that was sliced into the woods.
If you’re alone, you can easily tear around the course in under 3 hours (as long as there’s no one ahead of you). Just hit your ball, find it and hit it again. It’s a beautiful thing.
No. 2: Choosing Your Own Rhythm
When playing in a group, the rhythm of your round is at the mercy of your playing partners. If they are constantly whiffing and shanking, it’s difficult to establish a consistent cadence in your own game. On the other hand, you might feel rushed if you’re hitting more shots than your partners on every hole.
Playing by yourself allows you control your rhythm. Each shot can be studied, hit and assessed in your own time. Better still, the time between shots is relatively uniform, because you‘re always away. This constant, steady tempo undoubtedly helps you focus your mind and shoot lower scores.
Smart solo players can also manipulate the momentum of their round. When you’re playing well, you can easily continue at your current pace. When you’re playing poorly, you can take an extra few minutes on the next tee, or even hit a couple of practice balls, o help reset the momentum of the round and get your game back on track.
No. 3: Practice Opportunities
The fast pace of solo golf — together with the absence of other people — provides the perfect opportunity for on-course practice. If you want to work on a particular shot, you can simply drop some extra balls and swing away.
By hitting real shots on a real course in real conditions, you’re engaging in valuable game-specific training which cannot be simulated at the range or anywhere else.
No. 4: Real Integrity
When you’re all alone on the golf course, you can theoretically cheat as much as you want. No one will ever know.
So when you do the right thing and play every ball as it lies, call penalties on yourself and refuse to give yourself that slippery three-footer, there’s a higher level of integrity involved. In short, you’ll be able to look in the mirror with pride, no matter what you score. Playing by the rules will help you become a better golfer too.
No. 5: No Temptation to Outdo, Impress or Emulate Partners
Let’s face it; we all love to hit the longest drive or shoot the lowest score in our group. Most golfers carry the macho man gene, which leads them to compete against other players rather than themselves or the course. While this instinct can be a good motivator, it can also lead to some poor decisions and wasted strokes.
Playing alone eliminates the desire to outdo, impress or emulate anyone else. You can stick to your own strategy without any temptation to match others. Your scorecard will thank you.
No. 6: Fewer Nerves
We’ve all encountered the dreaded first tee jitters: shaky hands, dry mouth, inability to tee your ball and a million conflicting swing thoughts.
If you think back to times of nervousness (or even fear) on the golf course, I’d wager every one of them occurred in the company of people whose approval or acceptance mattered to you. It’s simply human nature.
When there’s no one around to judge or evaluate you, you’ll generally be looser, freer and more relaxed. In this optimal state, you’re more likely to play well and get a glimpse of your potential as a golfer.
No. 7: Play Your Way
It’s often awkward when you want to play from a certain set of tees, but a playing partner wants to play from another. Either someone yields and ends up playing from tees that don’t match their ability, or the players use separate tees and chaos ensues as everyone tries to decide who should have the honor.
The same principle applies when you want to ride but your buddy wants to walk, or vice-versa. Either someone caves and opts for a non-preferred mode of transport, or you both stick to your guns and play at wildly different paces for the entire round.
These dilemmas are completely avoided when you’re by yourself. Simply choose the tees you want, choose your preferred mode of transport and away you go.
No. 8: Spontaneity
Solo golfers are the masters of the spontaneous round. If you’re happy to play without company, you can head straight to the course whenever the mood strikes. No need to book tee times or work around anyone else’s schedule. Just go!
Once you’re on the course, you can go wherever your heart takes you. You’d prefer to play the back nine instead of the front? No problem. There’s a slow group on No. 6? You can skip ahead to No. 8 without having to seek anyone’s consent. You’re tired after 15 holes? Just walk in.
No. 9: Score However You Want
Some days you want to work on your game or just enjoy the experience of playing golf without worrying about the scorecard. Playing alone provides the ideal environment for doing just that. If you don’t want to think about shooting a number, you don’t have to.
If you must have competition or scorecard pressure, you’ve got plenty of options. You can score a traditional round of stroke play, or drop two balls and play one against the other, or perhaps use two or more balls for a round of best ball. The choice is yours.
No. 10: No Banal Banter
Playing on your own obviates the necessity to keep saying “nice shot” and, worse still, “hard luck.”
You don’t have to feign interest in your playing partner’s vacation plans, views on popular culture, marital woes or latest swing thought. You also don’t need to share your life story or engage in pointless small talk. You’re liberated to focus solely on whatever you want, whether that’s your swing, strategy, the scenery or whatever else floats your boat.
For some, golf will always be a social experience, where playing the game is equal or secondary to forming friendships with playing partners on the course or at the 19th hole. While the social side of golf is a definite drawcard, the benefits of playing alone should be considered too.
If you’ve never tried a solo round, get out there and have a go at the next opportunity. You might just discover a new passion.
Opinion & Analysis
The 2 primary challenges golf equipment companies face

As the editor-in-chief of this website and an observer of the GolfWRX forums and other online golf equipment discourse for over a decade, I’m pretty well attuned to the grunts and grumbles of a significant portion of the golf equipment purchasing spectrum. And before you accuse me of lording above all in some digital ivory tower, I’d like to offer that I worked at golf courses (public and private) for years prior to picking up my pen, so I’m well-versed in the non-degenerate golf equipment consumers out there. I touched (green)grass (retail)!
Complaints about the ills of and related to the OEMs usually follow some version of: Product cycles are too short for real innovation, tour equipment isn’t the same as retail (which is largely not true, by the way), too much is invested in marketing and not enough in R&D, top staffer X hasn’t even put the new driver in play, so it’s obviously not superior to the previous generation, prices are too high, and on and on.
Without digging into the merits of any of these claims, which I believe are mostly red herrings, I’d like to bring into view of our rangefinder what I believe to be the two primary difficulties golf equipment companies face.
One: As Terry Koehler, back when he was the CEO of Ben Hogan, told me at the time of the Ft Worth irons launch, if you can’t regularly hit the golf ball in a coin-sized area in the middle of the face, there’s not a ton that iron technology can do for you. Now, this is less true now with respect to irons than when he said it, and is less and less true by degrees as the clubs get larger (utilities, fairways, hybrids, drivers), but there remains a great deal of golf equipment truth in that statement. Think about it — which is to say, in TL;DR fashion, get lessons from a qualified instructor who will teach you about the fundamentals of repeatable impact and how the golf swing works, not just offer band-aid fixes. If you can’t repeatably deliver the golf club to the golf ball in something resembling the manner it was designed for, how can you expect to be getting the most out of the club — put another way, the maximum value from your investment?
Similarly, game improvement equipment can only improve your game if you game it. In other words, get fit for the clubs you ought to be playing rather than filling the bag with the ones you wish you could hit or used to be able to hit. Of course, don’t do this if you don’t care about performance and just want to hit a forged blade while playing off an 18 handicap. That’s absolutely fine. There were plenty of members in clubs back in the day playing Hogan Apex or Mizuno MP-32 irons who had no business doing so from a ballstriking standpoint, but they enjoyed their look, feel, and complementary qualities to their Gatsby hats and cashmere sweaters. Do what brings you a measure of joy in this maddening game.
Now, the second issue. This is not a plea for non-conforming equipment; rather, it is a statement of fact. USGA/R&A limits on every facet of golf equipment are detrimental to golf equipment manufacturers. Sure, you know this, but do you think about it as it applies to almost every element of equipment? A 500cc driver would be inherently more forgiving than a 460cc, as one with a COR measurement in excess of 0.83. 50-inch shafts. Box grooves. And on and on.
Would fewer regulations be objectively bad for the game? Would this erode its soul? Fortunately, that’s beside the point of this exercise, which is merely to point out the facts. The fact, in this case, is that equipment restrictions and regulations are the slaughterbench of an abundance of innovation in the golf equipment space. Is this for the best? Well, now I’ve asked the question twice and might as well give a partial response, I guess my answer to that would be, “It depends on what type of golf you’re playing and who you’re playing it with.”
For my part, I don’t mind embarrassing myself with vintage blades and persimmons chasing after the quasi-spiritual elevation of a well-struck shot, but that’s just me. Plenty of folks don’t give a damn if their grooves are conforming. Plenty of folks think the folks in Liberty Corner ought to add a prison to the museum for such offences. And those are just a few of the considerations for the amateur game — which doesn’t get inside the gallery ropes of the pro game…
Different strokes in the game of golf, in my humble opinion.
Anyway, I believe equipment company engineers are genuinely trying to build better equipment year over year. The marketing departments are trying to find ways to make this equipment appeal to the broadest segment of the golf market possible. All of this against (1) the backdrop of — at least for now — firm product cycles. And golfers who, with their ~15 average handicap (men), for the most part, are not striping the golf ball like Tiger in his prime and seem to have less and less time year over year to practice and improve. (2) Regulations that massively restrict what they’re able to do…
That’s the landscape as I see it and the real headwinds for golf equipment companies. No doubt, there’s more I haven’t considered, but I think the previous is a better — and better faith — point of departure when formulating any serious commentary on the golf equipment world than some of the more cynical and conspiratorial takes I hear.
Agree? Disagree? Think I’m worthy of an Adam Hadwin-esque security guard tackle? Let me know in the comments.
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Fore Love of Golf: Introducing a new club concept

Episode #16 brings us Cliff McKinney. Cliff is the founder of Old Charlie Golf Club, a new club, and concept, to be built in the Florida panhandle. The model is quite interesting and aims to make great, private golf more affordable. We hope you enjoy the show!
Opinion & Analysis
On Scottie Scheffler wondering ‘What’s the point of winning?’

Last week, I came across a reel from BBC Sport on Instagram featuring Scottie Scheffler speaking to the media ahead of The Open at Royal Portrush. In it, he shared that he often wonders what the point is of wanting to win tournaments so badly — especially when he knows, deep down, that it doesn’t lead to a truly fulfilling life.
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“Is it great to be able to win tournaments and to accomplish the things I have in the game of golf? Yeah, it brings tears to my eyes just to think about it because I’ve literally worked my entire life to be good at this sport,” Scheffler said. “To have that kind of sense of accomplishment, I think, is a pretty cool feeling. To get to live out your dreams is very special, but at the end of the day, I’m not out here to inspire the next generation of golfers. I’m not out here to inspire someone to be the best player in the world, because what’s the point?”
Ironically — or perhaps perfectly — he went on to win the claret jug.
That question — what’s the point of winning? — cuts straight to the heart of the human journey.
As someone who’s spent over two decades in the trenches of professional golf, and in deep study of the mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of the game, I see Scottie’s inner conflict as a sign of soul evolution in motion.
I came to golf late. I wasn’t a junior standout or college All-American. At 27, I left a steady corporate job to see if I could be on the PGA Tour starting as a 14-handicap, average-length hitter. Over the years, my journey has been defined less by trophies and more by the relentless effort to navigate the deeply inequitable and gated system of professional golf — an effort that ultimately turned inward and helped me evolve as both a golfer and a person.
One perspective that helped me make sense of this inner dissonance around competition and our culture’s tendency to overvalue winning is the idea of soul evolution.
The University of Virginia’s Division of Perceptual Studies has done extensive research on reincarnation, and Netflix’s Surviving Death (Episode 6) explores the topic, too. Whether you take it literally or metaphorically, the idea that we’re on a long arc of growth — from beginner to sage elder — offers a profound perspective.
If you accept the premise literally, then terms like “young soul” and “old soul” start to hold meaning. However, even if we set the word “soul” aside, it’s easy to see that different levels of life experience produce different worldviews.
Newer souls — or people in earlier stages of their development — may be curious and kind but still lack discernment or depth. There is a naivety, and they don’t yet question as deeply, tending to see things in black and white, partly because certainty feels safer than confronting the unknown.
As we gain more experience, we begin to experiment. We test limits. We chase extreme external goals — sometimes at the expense of health, relationships, or inner peace — still operating from hunger, ambition, and the fragility of the ego.
It’s a necessary stage, but often a turbulent and unfulfilling one.
David Duval fell off the map after reaching World No. 1. Bubba Watson had his own “Is this it?” moment with his caddie, Ted Scott, after winning the Masters.
In Aaron Rodgers: Enigma, reflecting on his 2011 Super Bowl win, Rodgers said:
“Now I’ve accomplished the only thing that I really, really wanted to do in my life. Now what? I was like, ‘Did I aim at the wrong thing? Did I spend too much time thinking about stuff that ultimately doesn’t give you true happiness?’”
Jim Carrey once said, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer.”
Eventually, though, something shifts.
We begin to see in shades of gray. Winning, dominating, accumulating—these pursuits lose their shine. The rewards feel more fleeting. Living in a constant state of fight-or-flight makes us feel alive, yes, but not happy and joyful.
Compassion begins to replace ambition. Love, presence, and gratitude become more fulfilling than status, profits, or trophies. We crave balance over burnout. Collaboration over competition. Meaning over metrics.
Interestingly, if we zoom out, we can apply this same model to nations and cultures. Countries, like people, have a collective “soul stage” made up of the individuals within them.
Take the United States, for example. I’d place it as a mid-level soul: highly competitive and deeply driven, but still learning emotional maturity. Still uncomfortable with nuance. Still believing that more is always better. Despite its global wins, the U.S. currently ranks just 23rd in happiness (as of 2025). You might liken it to a gifted teenager—bold, eager, and ambitious, but angsty and still figuring out how to live well and in balance. As much as a parent wants to protect their child, sometimes the child has to make their own mistakes to truly grow.
So when Scottie Scheffler wonders what the point of winning is, I don’t see someone losing strength.
I see someone evolving.
He’s beginning to look beyond the leaderboard. Beyond metrics of success that carry a lower vibration. And yet, in a poetic twist, Scheffler did go on to win The Open. But that only reinforces the point: even at the pinnacle, the question remains. And if more of us in the golf and sports world — and in U.S. culture at large — started asking similar questions, we might discover that the more meaningful trophy isn’t about accumulating or beating others at all costs.
It’s about awakening and evolving to something more than winning could ever promise.
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John James
Jul 6, 2018 at 12:44 pm
No 11 – Enjoy The Beauty! There is nothing like hitting a perfect drive, with a little draw, watching the ball fly against the mountains, sky and setting sun. This must what heaven is like!
John James
Jul 6, 2018 at 12:40 pm
No 11 — Enjoy The Beauty! There is nothing like hitting a perfect drive, with a little draw, against the mountains, sky and setting sun — with nothing but silence all around you. It must be what heaven is like!
Mazhar Hussain
Mar 19, 2016 at 7:08 am
Playing golf alone early in the morning with birds chirping and moist fresh air penetrating the lush green environment surrounding you is the best thing you can find yourself in. On each Tee I silently watch the fairway ahead and focus on the ball with peace and serenity of mind and attempt a rhythmic swing. When the ball flies like a bird in a straight parabola I feel joy and indescribable pleasure. Inner peace and serenity is what converts a golf swing into a killer blow thereby achieving distance and confidence required for the next shot. You always play against the par.
Straightdriver235
Jul 3, 2014 at 10:32 pm
Golf should be a solitary game. Here’s to playing alone. If I do play with others, it better not be more than a twosome, anything more and it is drudgery. Indeed, I don’t think it is fair that many tour events send out players in threesomes on Thursday and Friday… It is quite possible some great player who can’t cope with more than one other partner just can’t play well enough to make the cuts, but could burn the course up once he got down to a twosome. It is true, the comments, if you are a tournament golfer, playing alone has its limits. You wouldn’t catch me dead in a foursome, maybe as often as I go to a wedding or a funeral… not very.
wakit300
May 13, 2014 at 3:42 pm
Just saw this article and ummm are you trying to follow in the footsteps of Rolling Stone? Top 10 list should always count DOWN from 10 to 1. If you know what #1 is right away, why bother with the rest?
Chris
Apr 23, 2014 at 4:38 pm
I play much of my golf solo. However, I consider most of those sessions to be practice. I believe that adjusting to the pressure of others, the pace with which they play, etc. to be an integral part of the game. While I find those solo sessions do help me improve more than a mindless session on the range, it still doesn’t compare to the pressure of playing with others. In short, I think solo rounds are the best way to improve, but the real test can only come when playing with others, when you can’t just put another ball down.
Alex K.
Apr 16, 2014 at 10:48 pm
I’m fortunate enough to live and work close enough to my course that I frequently have a round on my own after work. I find it a great way to keep fit because (as mentioned in the article above), there are no/few hold ups and I can play as fast as I want. Another bonus (of sorts) is, without the pressure of competition (or others’ critical eyes), I find I can ‘let it all hang out’ with shot selection resulting is some (all modesty aside), spectacular shots which over time has left me with several 2-3ft eagle and double eagle putts. I guess all I need to do now is capture and retain that mindset and unleash it on comp day!
steve
Jul 12, 2015 at 12:44 pm
double eagle putts? What kind of course are you playing that you can have double eagle putts?
erkr
Apr 16, 2014 at 2:03 am
In summertime I play on my childhood course alone at 6am. Its at the ocean. As I play the town wakes up and I watch people bike down on course for early swim. I go 18 holes and I’m back to have second breakfast with wife and kids.
I always keep score and no gimmies.
ParHunter
Apr 15, 2014 at 4:15 pm
I like to play two balls when I play on my own, both with different shots, a high chip vs a bump and run etc.
another good one is reverse scramble, where you hit two drives but have to take the worse of the two.
The only problem is if you play on your own in between 3 or 4-balls. You either have to wait all the time (hence playing two balls) or you get asked to play through and that can make you feel rushed. I recently played through 6 groups in the course of 5 holes. It felt more like jogging than golf.
Ryan
Apr 15, 2014 at 10:35 am
5 years ago I got to play a good bit of solo golf. I agree – some of the best “alone” time that can be had. I definitely improved as a player as well as enjoyed the solitude and the lack of “noise” created by playing partners. I can’t remember the last time I got to go around on my own. I wish I could occasionally still.
I think that is one of the best things about golf – I can go out alone, with friends, or be paired up with strangers and have a great time. There is something special about solo golf that I think most people aren’t aware of as they take having playing partners as a given. Great article!
Ryan
Apr 15, 2014 at 10:39 am
Forgot to mention my only hole-in-one was during a solo round. I was jumping for joy and not a soul around to see it. Most people think that’s a travesty but I think its wonderful and private memory I don’t have to share.
billy
Apr 16, 2014 at 2:08 pm
I had 6 other eyes on mine and it was pretty special also…+ the memory is with them too and there is a little something special knowing they occasionally mention …”I was playing with a Guy once on a elevated par 3 and the ball hit center green then started toward the hole like it had eyes”
I fear hitting that shot again alone…
Audrey
Apr 13, 2014 at 12:33 am
Loved this article! As a woman golfer, I have found solo golf a wonderful way to work on my game and enjoy the beauty of the course. I have also found you can find courses’sweer spot’ where you can golf solo without being slowed down by golfers ahead.. I have found there are not alot if woman golfers……and on the flip side, while solo golfing I meet two other women who have become great golf companions. Whether with them or going solo, it’s always a good day out there!
Jim
Apr 12, 2014 at 11:04 pm
This is my favorite way to play unless i play a round with my dad. Most people look at you funny if you say you play alone. Nothing like you the course and your clubs set to try to shoot your lowest round ever . Its like your own little get away if only for a few hours, escaping the every day hustle
corey
Apr 13, 2014 at 12:18 am
couldn’t agree more
Dave
Apr 15, 2014 at 11:37 pm
+2
Tom Duckworth
Apr 12, 2014 at 8:47 pm
Early morning just after the sun comes up…..best time of the day. I like seeing the dew on the greens just a few birds and the sound of the breeze the trees. You just dial into the rhythm of your swing. It’s the best I just can’t add anymore.
Brian
Apr 12, 2014 at 10:47 am
I play over half my rounds solo just for the solitude. Sure if I’m invited to play, I happily oblige. It’s like reading a good book. Once you get into it, you can’t stop.
Nice article.
paul
Apr 12, 2014 at 12:13 am
I play by myself all summer. Once a week, 9 holes, 6am, done by 7:20 and at work 5 minutes early.
Double Mocha Man
Apr 11, 2014 at 7:50 pm
Good topic! I played today by myself and propped up my cellphone on my push cart… and watched the Masters! While sipping a tasty Italian sports drink. Life is good. Only the green jacket was missing.
luke keefner
Apr 11, 2014 at 7:29 pm
Most of the guys I play with would never EVER consider going out to play alone but for some reason I crave it. Maybe I’m a little misanthropic but I’m usually at first irritated when I get paired up with someone. Fortunately I am usually surprised at how much I enjoy the company. But, still, I consider golf a solitary game for me unless my son is home. That is as good as it gets
j.a.
Apr 11, 2014 at 7:18 pm
I have experienced all of this and being a high handicapper, in few words I can say, it’s the only way to play in peace.
Billy
Apr 12, 2014 at 3:52 am
amen!
Dan
Apr 11, 2014 at 5:32 pm
You can plug in some headphones and listen to golf weekly or Metallica 🙂