Instruction
My Take: How to get off golf’s hamster wheel and start improving today

With almost 30 years immersed in the business of golf, particularly within the coaching arena, I’ve seen firsthand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to improving your game. Unfortunately, many golfers find themselves stuck on a metaphorical hamster wheel, endlessly chasing improvement without making substantial gains.
This article will break down the most common pitfalls that I have seen golfers fall into and offer guidance on how to avoid these. If you can incorporate my advice, you will be well on your way to seeing substantial improvements in the course.
The Danger of Instant Gratification
In today’s fast-paced world, the allure of instant results is hard to resist. We live in an age where results are expected immediately, and patience is often overlooked. Golfers, too, fall prey to this mindset, and not just the competitive juniors I work with, either. This issue can handcuff golfers of all ages and ability levels. Look, I get it, I’d love to shave strokes off my game overnight, too, but real, lasting improvement in golf requires a mindset of running in a marathon and not a series of short sprints. It takes time, dedication, and the willingness to embrace gradual progress and then adjust on the fly when needed.
Looking for that Quick Fix? I’d Rethink That Approach
Golfers are known for searching far and wide for that magical tip, trick, or training aid that will solve all their problems. Quick-fix solutions may offer temporary relief, but they rarely lead to lasting improvement. Instead of focusing on these fleeting fixes, dedicate yourself to understanding the fundamentals and refining your technique over time, and do so, preferably with a trusted coach by your side.

YouTube and TikTok can be useful; however, caution should be exercised when relying on them as your only source for golf instruction.
Getting Caught Up in the Noise that is YouTube and TikTok
While social media platforms offer a wealth of information, they can also overwhelm golfers with contradictory advice. The funny thing about this game is that what works well for some doesn’t work at all for others. YouTube and TikTok are filled with self-proclaimed experts offering conflicting strategies. Even for those amazing coaches and experts with pedigree and a solid background, golf has no one-size-fits-all solution. This cacophony of voices can lead to confusion and frustration. It’s crucial to filter out the noise and focus only on credible, consistent advice.
Get a Coach, Trust That Coach, Stay With That Coach for the Long Haul
One of the most effective paths to improvement is finding a knowledgeable coach. A good coach provides personalized guidance and offers long-term development strategies. The key, however, is to trust your coach and stick with them over time. Constantly switching coaches in search of the ‘next best thing’ often leads to confusion and inconsistency in your game. Sticking with a coach who can build an intimate knowledge of you and your game is your best bet for checking off goals. Over time, developing a relationship built on trust and mutual respect for one another can be a game changer.
You Don’t Practice Enough or Have Unstructured Practice Habits
Many golfers claim to practice but fail to do so effectively or consistently. Sporadic practice sessions with no clear objectives won’t yield significant improvement. Developing a structured practice plan that targets specific areas of your game is critical. Regular, purposeful practice will lead to gradual improvements and build confidence.
Your Expectations Are Far Too Lofty
Setting unattainably high goals often leads to disappointment and frustration. Understandably, you want to challenge yourself, but unrealistic expectations can hinder your progress and enjoyment of the game. Set achievable benchmarks and celebrate small victories along the way to maintain motivation and enthusiasm.
Lowering Scores Requires You to Think Differently on the Golf Course Than You Are Currently
Improving your scores is not just about better technique; it’s about smarter play. Many golfers overlook the strategic aspect of golf. Developing course management skills, learning to properly and realistically assess risks, and making smart, calculated decisions on the course are crucial elements for lowering scores. Simply beating balls on the range, searching for perfection, won’t yield better results. A massive part of improving your scoring is by adopting a pre-shot routine that is consistent, locked in, not too long, and covers all your bases: Asses the Shot; Asses the Lie; Asses the Weather; Assess the Dangers; Make a decision; Execute with Confidence.
There Is No Such Thing as a Perfect Swing, So Get That out of Your Head
A perfect swing is a myth perpetuated by unrealistic standards. Each individual’s body mechanics are unique, and striving for perfection can lead to frustration and inhibit progress. Instead, focus on developing a repeatable, reliable swing that works for you. Embrace your swing’s idiosyncrasies and build confidence in your ability.
The Physical, Mental, and Emotional Connection That Leads to Real Improvement
Golf is a multi-faceted sport that requires physical skill, mental focus, and emotional resilience. Many golfers focus solely on their physical game while neglecting the mental and emotional components. Balancing these three aspects is essential for real improvement. Building mental toughness, maintaining focus, and managing emotions enhance a golfer’s ability to perform under pressure and improve consistently over time.
Final Thoughts
Breaking free from the hamster wheel of golf improvement requires dedication, patience, and a willingness to embrace a holistic approach. By sidestepping the common pitfalls and committing to effective, structured practices, golfers can achieve meaningful progress and truly enjoy the sport to its fullest. Remember, real improvement is a journey, not a destination.
Reader, please support me by checking out my three weekly columns on RG.org. On Mondays, I present “The Starter,” which recaps the week gone by in golf. On Thursdays, I give you “Fairway Focus,” which previews the week to come in golf. And on Saturdays, I dish up the “Weekend Fore-cast,” a look at what’s on tap for the upcoming weekend.
Editor’s note: “My Take” will be an ongoing weekly series where Brendon shares his thoughts and opinions on various aspects of the game and industry. These are Brendon’s opinions and do not necessarily reflect those of GolfWRX, its staff, and its affiliates.
Instruction
The Wedge Guy: Beating the yips into submission

There may be no more painful affliction in golf than the “yips” – those uncontrollable and maddening little nervous twitches that prevent you from making a decent stroke on short putts. If you’ve never had them, consider yourself very fortunate (or possibly just very young). But I can assure you that when your most treacherous and feared golf shot is not the 195 yard approach over water with a quartering headwind…not the extra tight fairway with water left and sand right…not the soft bunker shot to a downhill pin with water on the other side…No, when your most feared shot is the remaining 2- 4-foot putt after hitting a great approach, recovery or lag putt, it makes the game almost painful.
And I’ve been fighting the yips (again) for a while now. It’s a recurring nightmare that has haunted me most of my adult life. I even had the yips when I was in my 20s, but I’ve beat them into submission off and on most of my adult life. But just recently, that nasty virus came to life once again. My lag putting has been very good, but when I get over one of those “you should make this” length putts, the entire nervous system seems to go haywire. I make great practice strokes, and then the most pitiful short-stroke or jab at the ball you can imagine. Sheesh.
But I’m a traditionalist, and do not look toward the long putter, belly putter, cross-hand, claw or other variation as the solution. My approach is to beat those damn yips into submission some other way. Here’s what I’m doing that is working pretty well, and I offer it to all of you who might have a similar affliction on the greens.
When you are over a short putt, forget the practice strokes…you want your natural eye-hand coordination to be unhindered by mechanics. Address your putt and take a good look at the hole, and back to the putter to ensure good alignment. Lighten your right hand grip on the putter and make sure that only the fingertips are in contact with the grip, to prevent you from getting to tight.
Then, take a long, long look at the hole to fill your entire mind and senses with the target. When you bring your head/eyes back to the ball, try to make a smooth, immediate move right into your backstroke — not even a second pause — and then let your hands and putter track right back together right back to where you were looking — the HOLE! Seeing the putter make contact with the ball, preferably even the forward edge of the ball – the side near the hole.
For me, this is working, but I am asking all of you to chime in with your own “home remedies” for the most aggravating and senseless of all golf maladies. It never hurts to have more to fall back on!
Instruction
Looking for a good golf instructor? Use this checklist

Over the last couple of decades, golf has become much more science-based. We measure swing speed, smash factor, angle of attack, strokes gained, and many other metrics that can really help golfers improve. But I often wonder if the advancement of golf’s “hard” sciences comes at the expense of the “soft” sciences.
Take, for example, golf instruction. Good golf instruction requires understanding swing mechanics and ball flight. But let’s take that as a given for PGA instructors. The other factors that make an instructor effective can be evaluated by social science, rather than launch monitors.
If you are a recreational golfer looking for a golf instructor, here are my top three points to consider.
1. Cultural mindset
What is “cultural mindset? To social scientists, it means whether a culture of genius or a culture of learning exists. In a golf instruction context, that may mean whether the teacher communicates a message that golf ability is something innate (you either have it or you don’t), or whether golf ability is something that can be learned. You want the latter!
It may sound obvious to suggest that you find a golf instructor who thinks you can improve, but my research suggests that it isn’t a given. In a large sample study of golf instructors, I found that when it came to recreational golfers, there was a wide range of belief systems. Some instructors strongly believed recreational golfers could improve through lessons. while others strongly believed they could not. And those beliefs manifested in the instructor’s feedback given to a student and the culture created for players.
2. Coping and self-modeling can beat role-modeling
Swing analysis technology is often preloaded with swings of PGA and LPGA Tour players. The swings of elite players are intended to be used for comparative purposes with golfers taking lessons. What social science tells us is that for novice and non-expert golfers, comparing swings to tour professionals can have the opposite effect of that intended. If you fit into the novice or non-expert category of golfer, you will learn more and be more motivated to change if you see yourself making a ‘better’ swing (self-modeling) or seeing your swing compared to a similar other (a coping model). Stay away from instructors who want to compare your swing with that of a tour player.
3. Learning theory basics
It is not a sexy selling point, but learning is a process, and that process is incremental – particularly for recreational adult players. Social science helps us understand this element of golf instruction. A good instructor will take learning slowly. He or she will give you just about enough information that challenges you, but is still manageable. The artful instructor will take time to decide what that one or two learning points are before jumping in to make full-scale swing changes. If the instructor moves too fast, you will probably leave the lesson with an arm’s length of swing thoughts and not really know which to focus on.
As an instructor, I develop a priority list of changes I want to make in a player’s technique. We then patiently and gradually work through that list. Beware of instructors who give you more than you can chew.
So if you are in the market for golf instruction, I encourage you to look beyond the X’s and O’s to find the right match!
Instruction
What Lottie Woad’s stunning debut win teaches every golfer

Most pros take months, even years, to win their first tournament. Lottie Woad needed exactly four days.
The 21-year-old from Surrey shot 21-under 267 at Dundonald Links to win the ISPS Handa Women’s Scottish Open by three shots — in her very first event as a professional. She’s only the third player in LPGA history to accomplish this feat, joining Rose Zhang (2023) and Beverly Hanson (1951).
But here’s what caught my attention as a coach: Woad didn’t win through miraculous putting or bombing 300-yard drives. She won through relentless precision and unshakeable composure. After watching her performance unfold, I’m convinced every golfer — from weekend warriors to scratch players — can steal pages from her playbook.
Precision Beats Power (And It’s Not Even Close)
Forget the driving contests. Woad proved that finding greens matters more than finding distance.
What Woad did:
• Hit it straight, hit it solid, give yourself chances
• Aimed for the fat parts of greens instead of chasing pins
• Let her putting do the talking after hitting safe targets
• As she said, “Everyone was chasing me today, and managed to maintain the lead and played really nicely down the stretch and hit a lot of good shots”
Why most golfers mess this up:
• They see a pin tucked behind a bunker and grab one more club to “go right at it”
• Distance becomes more important than accuracy
• They try to be heroic instead of smart
ACTION ITEM: For your next 10 rounds, aim for the center of every green regardless of pin position. Track your greens in regulation and watch your scores drop before your swing changes.
The Putter That Stayed Cool Under Fire
Woad started the final round two shots clear and immediately applied pressure with birdies at the 2nd and 3rd holes. When South Korea’s Hyo Joo Kim mounted a charge and reached 20-under with a birdie at the 14th, Woad didn’t panic.
How she responded to pressure:
• Fired back with consecutive birdies at the 13th and 14th
• Watched Kim stumble with back-to-back bogeys
• Capped it with her fifth birdie of the day at the par-5 18th
• Stayed patient when others pressed, pressed when others cracked
What amateurs do wrong:
• Get conservative when they should be aggressive
• Try to force magic when steady play would win
• Panic when someone else makes a move
ACTION ITEM: Practice your 3-6 foot putts for 15 minutes after every range session. Woad’s putting wasn’t spectacular—it was reliable. Make the putts you should make.
Course Management 101: Play Your Game, Not the Course’s Game
Woad admitted she couldn’t see many scoreboards during the final round, but it didn’t matter. She stuck to her game plan regardless of what others were doing.
Her mental approach:
• Focused on her process, not the competition
• Drew on past pressure situations (Augusta National Women’s Amateur win)
• As she said, “That was the biggest tournament I played in at the time and was kind of my big win. So definitely felt the pressure of it more there, and I felt like all those experiences helped me with this”
Her physical execution:
• 270-yard drives (nothing flashy)
• Methodical iron play
• Steady putting
• Everything effective, nothing spectacular
ACTION ITEM: Create a yardage book for your home course. Know your distances to every pin, every hazard, every landing area. Stick to your plan no matter what your playing partners are doing.
Mental Toughness Isn’t Born, It’s Built
The most impressive part of Woad’s win? She genuinely didn’t expect it: “I definitely wasn’t expecting to win my first event as a pro, but I knew I was playing well, and I was hoping to contend.”
Her winning mindset:
• Didn’t put winning pressure on herself
• Focused on playing well and contending
• Made winning a byproduct of a good process
• Built confidence through recent experiences:
- Won the Women’s Irish Open as an amateur
- Missed a playoff by one shot at the Evian Championship
- Each experience prepared her for the next
What this means for you:
• Stop trying to shoot career rounds every time you tee up
• Focus on executing your pre-shot routine
• Commit to every shot
• Stay present in the moment
ACTION ITEM: Before each round, set process goals instead of score goals. Example: “I will take three practice swings before every shot” or “I will pick a specific target for every shot.” Let your score be the result, not the focus.
The Real Lesson
Woad collected $300,000 for her first professional victory, but the real prize was proving that fundamentals still work at golf’s highest level. She didn’t reinvent the game — she simply executed the basics better than everyone else that week.
The fundamentals that won:
• Hit more fairways
• Find more greens
• Make the putts you should make
• Stay patient under pressure
That’s something every golfer can do, regardless of handicap. Lottie Woad just showed us it’s still the winning formula.
FINAL ACTION ITEM: Pick one of the four action items above and commit to it for the next month. Master one fundamental before moving to the next. That’s how champions are built.
PGA Professional Brendon Elliott is an award-winning coach and golf writer. You can check out his writing work and learn more about him by visiting BEAGOLFER.golf and OneMoreRollGolf.com. Also, check out “The Starter” on RG.org each Monday.
Editor’s note: Brendon shares his nearly 30 years of experience in the game with GolfWRX readers through his ongoing tip series. He looks forward to providing valuable insights and advice to help golfers improve their game. Stay tuned for more Tips!
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