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Did you really expect Mahan to keep playing?

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It’s become something of a standard bit in recent years: A golfer, whose wife is quite pregnant, is asked in a press conference if he’d withdraw from a tournament if he found out his wife was going into labor.

Generally, the golfer mouths some variant of, “Of course I would. There are more important things than golf.”

Yet who, before Hunter Mahan, who withdrew from the RBC Canadian Open upon finding out that his wife had gone into labor, has ever had his feet held to the fire?

In 2007, when wife Elin was pregnant with the couple’s first child, Tiger Woods indicated he’d withdraw during the U.S. Open if his wife went into labor. Fortunately, Woods didn’t have to weigh missing out on a major victory versus missing the birth of his child: Sam Alexis wasn’t born until Monday.

Likewise, Phil Mickelson, at the 1999 U.S. Open at Pinehurst, famously played the final round with a cell phone in his pocket, claiming, too, he’d withdraw if he got the call saying his wife was giving birth.

Like Woods, Mickelson didn’t have to leave work early, as his child was born the next day.

Indeed, who can forget Payne Stewart gripping Mickelson, whom he’d just defeated, reminding the golfer that he was going to be a father, which was of far greater significance to the doyen of traditional golfing garb.

Payne Stewart had it right.

True, a win at the Canadian Open would have been the culmination of a spell of fine form for Hunter Mahan, who entered the tournament a favorite to win. He tied for fourth at the U.S. Open in June, a final-round 75 sinking his hopes of a first major win. Likewise, Mahan tied for ninth at the Open Championship last week.

Thus, not only did Hunter Mahan step away from a tournament he was winning after 36 holes, he hit pause on an ascendent streak in his career in order to share in the birth of his first child. It’s possible that he’ll miss next week’s WGC-Bridgestone Invitational, which he’s committed to, as well.

However, as ESPN’s LZ Granderson said in 2012 when the Chicago Bears’ Charles Tillman was considering whether he’d miss playing time for the birth of his child, we are presented with an outlandish situation with the “Will he or won’t he” drama:

Only an athlete gets applauded for wanting to be there for the birth of a child. Any other millionaire husband who showed up at the office while his wife was giving birth would get funny looks at best and called inhuman at worst. But for some reason, the script is totally flipped in the bizarro world of sports.

If Mahan would have said, “Sorry, honey, I’ve got to finish this thing off…” what could we have said in his defense? What a fabulous illustration of the dedication of PGA Tour players? That the golfer had an obligation to RBC? That he couldn’t leave money on the table? That wins on the PGA Tour are hard to come by and children aren’t?

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Hunter Mahan and his wife, Kandi, who was a cheerleader for the Dallas Cowboys and a dancer for the Dallas Mavericks. The couple married in 2011.

All of the above, of course, is nonsense. Hunter and Kandi Mahan started a profoundly significant nine month journey together. For the golfer to bail with the end in sight, saying to his wife, “Go ahead without me,” would have been absurd, irresponsible, and disrespectful.

Mahan made the right decision, to be sure. However, it’s problematic that there could be a discussion of him doing otherwise. Hunter Mahan is, by all accounts, a great guy. However, his decision to withdraw isn’t heroic or fabulously self-sacrificing. Rather, it’s simply the right thing to do. And I think Mr. Mahan would be the first to tell you that.

Anyone who chooses to become a father and elects not to be present at the beginning of that fatherhood for any reason is deplorable. This is true whether you drive a bus or drive golf balls.

Mahan’s withdrawal is newsworthy. Indeed, any time the 36-hole leader of a tournament withdraws it’s newsworthy. The idea that there was a decision to be made, or some type of calculus, however, is ridiculous.

Again, I think Mr. Mahan would be the first to tell you that.

Ben Alberstadt is the Editor-in-Chief at GolfWRX, where he’s led editorial direction and gear coverage since 2018. He first joined the site as a freelance writer in 2012 after years spent working in pro shops and bag rooms at both public and private golf courses, experiences that laid the foundation for his deep knowledge of equipment and all facets of this maddening game. Based in Philadelphia, Ben’s byline has also appeared on PGATour.com, Bleacher Report...and across numerous PGA DFS and fantasy golf platforms. Off the course, Ben is a committed cat rescuer and, of course, a passionate Philadelphia sports fan. Follow him on Instagram @benalberstadt.

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13 Comments

  1. Ronald Montesano

    Aug 3, 2013 at 9:46 am

    Some of these reactions leave me shaking my head and wondering about the future of society vis a vis those who golf. I could go through every negative comment and write a rebuttal, but you don’t want me to, so I won’t.

    HM did the only thing possible. He abandoned a potential tournament victory and the mojo/rhythm that accompany it for a higher calling, his family. If I take two days off work, I don’t lose one million dollars. Moneybags? Doubtful. Grounded and centered despite being wealthy? I think so.

  2. m

    Jul 30, 2013 at 11:20 am

    They should have “tried” at Christmas (and not Thanksgiving)! 😉

  3. benseattle

    Jul 29, 2013 at 3:39 pm

    The article is pointless. Just WHO is advocating that a 36-hole leader stick around and try to win a golf tournament? NOBODY, that’s who. Thus articles like this and Jim Nantz’ pandering make no sense at all. The decision was a no-brainer and it’s made every day by executives who skip a board meeting, a salesman who postpones a business trip and a mechanic who takes a few days off work — all because they want to be there for the birth of their first child. Nobody is begrudging them or criticizing them. So why are we going out of our way to PRAISE them for simply Doing The Right Thing?

    Write about something that matters…….

  4. Bart

    Jul 29, 2013 at 3:21 pm

    Interesting comment about the Bus Driver and the Golf Ball Driver, factoring in the enormous pay disparity, I reckon it’d be a much harder call for the Bus Driver irrespective of the morals involved, as for Mr. Mahan? what’s a million bucks between friends?.

  5. Winmac

    Jul 28, 2013 at 10:46 pm

    @Desmond is a married man and he’s wise enough to know how to thread the thin line.

  6. DJ

    Jul 28, 2013 at 7:08 pm

    Wow…..a husband took off a day of work for the birth of his child….Jim Nantz made it sound like he cured cancer today….this is nothing special, it is called being a normal person with a brain.

  7. ABgolfer2

    Jul 28, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    A multi-millionaire takes the weekend off. Zzzzzzzzzzz. . .

  8. Desmond

    Jul 28, 2013 at 11:45 am

    Let’s see, attractive Dallas Cows Cheerleader and Mavs Dancer versus Hunter “Money Bags” Mahan. I’d say Hunter made the right call if he wants to keep that wife … Guys, if you haven’t learned, Women don’t forget and they DO hold it against you. There’s always another tournament to make a million, but kids? That’s an unknown. And a wife who keeps on giving? Priceless.

    • Golfcomestomind

      Jul 29, 2013 at 8:36 pm

      Reality is sometimes difficult to see. You have vision Desmond.

  9. Bill

    Jul 28, 2013 at 10:12 am

    I realize this isn’t a PC answer, but I could go either way on this..
    Mahan’s wife went into labor early AND it’s his first child, so it’s kind of a no brainer. But these guys are entertainers and it detracts from the “show” when they take off in the middle of a tourney, especially while leading. If the money wasn’t so outrageously high for these guys, you wouldn’t be seeing all this fleeing..But a guy gets a couple top 10 finishes and he’s set for a year or two…Call me insensitive (although arguably Mahan’s situation is a little different), but having babies is no big deal after the first one..

    • Mi

      Jul 28, 2013 at 11:16 am

      You’re right. You’re not insensitive. You’re very rational and are economically sensible. Babies are born every minutes. One can also watch the experience of others on YouTube. I suppose he can have someone videotape the moment while he’s making money for the child support. Now, that’s what we know it as a responsible father.

      • Geoffrey

        Jul 28, 2013 at 4:03 pm

        A conversation about this is hysterical. No one should ever miss the birth of their child. What I find most interesting is the statement that Mahan is a great guy by all accounts. I have actually heard by most that the opposite is true.

  10. Rob

    Jul 28, 2013 at 9:26 am

    It was the 1999 U.S. Open for Mickelson.

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The 2 primary challenges golf equipment companies face

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As the editor-in-chief of this website and an observer of the GolfWRX forums and other online golf equipment discourse for over a decade, I’m pretty well attuned to the grunts and grumbles of a significant portion of the golf equipment purchasing spectrum. And before you accuse me of lording above all in some digital ivory tower, I’d like to offer that I worked at golf courses (public and private) for years prior to picking up my pen, so I’m well-versed in the non-degenerate golf equipment consumers out there. I touched (green)grass (retail)!

Complaints about the ills of and related to the OEMs usually follow some version of: Product cycles are too short for real innovation, tour equipment isn’t the same as retail (which is largely not true, by the way), too much is invested in marketing and not enough in R&D, top staffer X hasn’t even put the new driver in play, so it’s obviously not superior to the previous generation, prices are too high, and on and on.

Without digging into the merits of any of these claims, which I believe are mostly red herrings, I’d like to bring into view of our rangefinder what I believe to be the two primary difficulties golf equipment companies face.

One: As Terry Koehler, back when he was the CEO of Ben Hogan, told me at the time of the Ft Worth irons launch, if you can’t regularly hit the golf ball in a coin-sized area in the middle of the face, there’s not a ton that iron technology can do for you. Now, this is less true now with respect to irons than when he said it, and is less and less true by degrees as the clubs get larger (utilities, fairways, hybrids, drivers), but there remains a great deal of golf equipment truth in that statement. Think about it — which is to say, in TL;DR fashion, get lessons from a qualified instructor who will teach you about the fundamentals of repeatable impact and how the golf swing works, not just offer band-aid fixes. If you can’t repeatably deliver the golf club to the golf ball in something resembling the manner it was designed for, how can you expect to be getting the most out of the club — put another way, the maximum value from your investment?

Similarly, game improvement equipment can only improve your game if you game it. In other words, get fit for the clubs you ought to be playing rather than filling the bag with the ones you wish you could hit or used to be able to hit. Of course, don’t do this if you don’t care about performance and just want to hit a forged blade while playing off an 18 handicap. That’s absolutely fine. There were plenty of members in clubs back in the day playing Hogan Apex or Mizuno MP-32 irons who had no business doing so from a ballstriking standpoint, but they enjoyed their look, feel, and complementary qualities to their Gatsby hats and cashmere sweaters. Do what brings you a measure of joy in this maddening game.

Now, the second issue. This is not a plea for non-conforming equipment; rather, it is a statement of fact. USGA/R&A limits on every facet of golf equipment are detrimental to golf equipment manufacturers. Sure, you know this, but do you think about it as it applies to almost every element of equipment? A 500cc driver would be inherently more forgiving than a 460cc, as one with a COR measurement in excess of 0.83. 50-inch shafts. Box grooves. And on and on.

Would fewer regulations be objectively bad for the game? Would this erode its soul? Fortunately, that’s beside the point of this exercise, which is merely to point out the facts. The fact, in this case, is that equipment restrictions and regulations are the slaughterbench of an abundance of innovation in the golf equipment space. Is this for the best? Well, now I’ve asked the question twice and might as well give a partial response, I guess my answer to that would be, “It depends on what type of golf you’re playing and who you’re playing it with.”

For my part, I don’t mind embarrassing myself with vintage blades and persimmons chasing after the quasi-spiritual elevation of a well-struck shot, but that’s just me. Plenty of folks don’t give a damn if their grooves are conforming. Plenty of folks think the folks in Liberty Corner ought to add a prison to the museum for such offences. And those are just a few of the considerations for the amateur game — which doesn’t get inside the gallery ropes of the pro game…

Different strokes in the game of golf, in my humble opinion.

Anyway, I believe equipment company engineers are genuinely trying to build better equipment year over year. The marketing departments are trying to find ways to make this equipment appeal to the broadest segment of the golf market possible. All of this against (1) the backdrop of — at least for now — firm product cycles. And golfers who, with their ~15 average handicap (men), for the most part, are not striping the golf ball like Tiger in his prime and seem to have less and less time year over year to practice and improve. (2) Regulations that massively restrict what they’re able to do…

That’s the landscape as I see it and the real headwinds for golf equipment companies. No doubt, there’s more I haven’t considered, but I think the previous is a better — and better faith — point of departure when formulating any serious commentary on the golf equipment world than some of the more cynical and conspiratorial takes I hear.

Agree? Disagree? Think I’m worthy of an Adam Hadwin-esque security guard tackle? Let me know in the comments.

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On Scottie Scheffler wondering ‘What’s the point of winning?’

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Last week, I came across a reel from BBC Sport on Instagram featuring Scottie Scheffler speaking to the media ahead of The Open at Royal Portrush. In it, he shared that he often wonders what the point is of wanting to win tournaments so badly — especially when he knows, deep down, that it doesn’t lead to a truly fulfilling life.

 

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“Is it great to be able to win tournaments and to accomplish the things I have in the game of golf? Yeah, it brings tears to my eyes just to think about it because I’ve literally worked my entire life to be good at this sport,” Scheffler said. “To have that kind of sense of accomplishment, I think, is a pretty cool feeling. To get to live out your dreams is very special, but at the end of the day, I’m not out here to inspire the next generation of golfers. I’m not out here to inspire someone to be the best player in the world, because what’s the point?”

Ironically — or perhaps perfectly — he went on to win the claret jug.

That question — what’s the point of winning? — cuts straight to the heart of the human journey.

As someone who’s spent over two decades in the trenches of professional golf, and in deep study of the mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of the game, I see Scottie’s inner conflict as a sign of soul evolution in motion.

I came to golf late. I wasn’t a junior standout or college All-American. At 27, I left a steady corporate job to see if I could be on the PGA Tour starting as a 14-handicap, average-length hitter. Over the years, my journey has been defined less by trophies and more by the relentless effort to navigate the deeply inequitable and gated system of professional golf — an effort that ultimately turned inward and helped me evolve as both a golfer and a person.

One perspective that helped me make sense of this inner dissonance around competition and our culture’s tendency to overvalue winning is the idea of soul evolution.

The University of Virginia’s Division of Perceptual Studies has done extensive research on reincarnation, and Netflix’s Surviving Death (Episode 6) explores the topic, too. Whether you take it literally or metaphorically, the idea that we’re on a long arc of growth — from beginner to sage elder — offers a profound perspective.

If you accept the premise literally, then terms like “young soul” and “old soul” start to hold meaning. However, even if we set the word “soul” aside, it’s easy to see that different levels of life experience produce different worldviews.

Newer souls — or people in earlier stages of their development — may be curious and kind but still lack discernment or depth. There is a naivety, and they don’t yet question as deeply, tending to see things in black and white, partly because certainty feels safer than confronting the unknown.

As we gain more experience, we begin to experiment. We test limits. We chase extreme external goals — sometimes at the expense of health, relationships, or inner peace — still operating from hunger, ambition, and the fragility of the ego.

It’s a necessary stage, but often a turbulent and unfulfilling one.

David Duval fell off the map after reaching World No. 1. Bubba Watson had his own “Is this it?” moment with his caddie, Ted Scott, after winning the Masters.

In Aaron Rodgers: Enigma, reflecting on his 2011 Super Bowl win, Rodgers said:

“Now I’ve accomplished the only thing that I really, really wanted to do in my life. Now what? I was like, ‘Did I aim at the wrong thing? Did I spend too much time thinking about stuff that ultimately doesn’t give you true happiness?’”

Jim Carrey once said, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer.”

Eventually, though, something shifts.

We begin to see in shades of gray. Winning, dominating, accumulating—these pursuits lose their shine. The rewards feel more fleeting. Living in a constant state of fight-or-flight makes us feel alive, yes, but not happy and joyful.

Compassion begins to replace ambition. Love, presence, and gratitude become more fulfilling than status, profits, or trophies. We crave balance over burnout. Collaboration over competition. Meaning over metrics.

Interestingly, if we zoom out, we can apply this same model to nations and cultures. Countries, like people, have a collective “soul stage” made up of the individuals within them.

Take the United States, for example. I’d place it as a mid-level soul: highly competitive and deeply driven, but still learning emotional maturity. Still uncomfortable with nuance. Still believing that more is always better. Despite its global wins, the U.S. currently ranks just 23rd in happiness (as of 2025). You might liken it to a gifted teenager—bold, eager, and ambitious, but angsty and still figuring out how to live well and in balance. As much as a parent wants to protect their child, sometimes the child has to make their own mistakes to truly grow.

So when Scottie Scheffler wonders what the point of winning is, I don’t see someone losing strength.

I see someone evolving.

He’s beginning to look beyond the leaderboard. Beyond metrics of success that carry a lower vibration. And yet, in a poetic twist, Scheffler did go on to win The Open. But that only reinforces the point: even at the pinnacle, the question remains. And if more of us in the golf and sports world — and in U.S. culture at large — started asking similar questions, we might discover that the more meaningful trophy isn’t about accumulating or beating others at all costs.

It’s about awakening and evolving to something more than winning could ever promise.

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