Opinion & Analysis
Lexi Thompson keeps making dreams come true

By Pete Pappas
GolfWRX Staff Writer
Lexi Thompson was the youngest golfer ever to play in the U.S. Woman’s Open at the tender age of 12.
And four years later her victory at the Navistar LPGA Classic made the 16 year-old sensation the youngest ever champion in LPGA Tour history.
“This has been my dream like my whole life,” Thompson said at the time. “It’s the best feeling ever.”
It shouldn’t come as a surprise then with the brightest stars on the LPGA Tour playing in the Sybase Match Play Championship this weekend the now 17 year-old prodigy once again did the amazing.
Lexi went to prom instead.
Not Your Typical Prom
Thompson met her date one day before prom. She’s planning on giving him a few golf lessons. He’s going to teach her how to shoot a rifle.
Sounds like a typical high school prom weekend right?
OK maybe not typical. But nothing about Thompson has ever been typical. Everything she does is extraordinary with high energy and a big heart.
And that makes being around Thompson a lot of fun both on and off the golf course.
Thompson used a video on her Facebook page to conduct a nationwide search for her prom date. In the video she said she was looking for a military man between the ages of 18 and 20 who’s part of the Wounded Warriors group.
She ultimately found that person when she chose U.S. Marine Lance Corporal Mark Scott.
“Everybody that shared their story with me was an amazing person, I read pretty much every story about ten times,” Thompson said.
More than 100 servicemen sent in their videos to be Thompson’s date for the Coral Glades High School prom. But there was something extra-special to Thompson about Scott.
“Mark’s story stood out to me and I’m honored to be taking him,” she said.
Scott is the recipient of a Purple Heart in Afghanistan and he sounded pretty honored to be escorting Thompson as well.
“I saw it as a once in a lifetime opportunity,” Scott said.
Thompson and her family have long had a special place in their hearts for military veterans and the Wounded Warriors in particular.
Thompson had a group of Wounded Warriors caddy for her in the Honda Classic Pro-Am this past March. And she also donated $20,000 of her winnings at the Navistar to Wounded Warriors.
“It’s definitely a way of saying thank you to everybody who devoted their life to serve for our country,” Thompson said. “It’s going to be a lot of fun.”
The moment wasn’t lost on Scott either. “A lot of times as a veteran you kind of feel forgotten,” he said. “This sheds light on the situation and lets us know that people actually are out there and that people do care.”
For two people not even old enough to drink their level of maturity and poise is profound. But perhaps that shouldn’t come as a surprise either as both are exceptional human beings who excel in their daily lives in everything they do.
So what about Thompson teaching Scott to golf and Scott teaching Thompson to shoot a gun?
“Yes, that’s the plan, Scott said.” “I’ll be in my comfort zone and I’ll show her a few things.” Scott continued, “And then I’ll be taken right out of my comfort zone and she’s gonna bring me into her neck of the woods.
And how does Scott feel about Thompson missing the star-studded Sybase Match Play for the glitz and glamour of her high school prom?
“I can’t wait to see Lexi in her dress and I just want to see how beautiful she looks,” Scott said.
Kids.
The Decision
Thompson’s decision to attend her high school prom caused a bit more controversy than she might have expected. And it became an immediate focal point for debate.
Her Facebook page attracted more than 750,000 unique visitors since she aired her prom video. Hashtag #Lexi Prom was tweeted more than five-million times. And E! Entertainment Television camera crews followed Thompson and Scott around on Friday to air their prom festivities on the cable network this Monday.
Many called it a public relations ploy. Others said it was a premeditated publicity stunt. And some even claimed an exploitation of Thompson by her parents and agent.
Thompson is a teenager of course. But she’s also a professional athlete, an entertainer and a celebrity. And ask two-time Olympic medal winner Jennie Finch just how easy it was getting a date when she was a 17 year-old 6-foot 1-inch tall softball pitcher at Mirada High School.
While PR isn’t something that normally comes into play in the lives of most teenagers, Thompson clearly isn’t “most teenagers.”
Granted, certain things should remain sacrosanct from the spotlight of advertising stunts, from reality TV. And certain events publicized in these manners will always run a risk of sideswiping backlash and judgment (particularly when the stench of insincerity exists from the start: Kim Kardashian’s wedding to NBA player Kris Humphries comes to mind).
But even the most cynical of cynics can’t possibly see any insincerity with Thompson just trying to have as much fun as possible for her prom, can they?
Taking to Facebook to find her prom date was fun for Thompson and for Scott, for the military men of the Wounded Warriors who wooed her with their videos, and for those who followed the feel-good story.
It’s made thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of people happy, and at least one person’s dream come true.
Maybe when people called her decision “creepy” what they really meant was a lot of fun and good times for everyone involved?
Thompson was able to make her prom fun in this extravagant and unique way precisely because she’s a celebrity athlete. Why not take advantage of that? Where’s the harm in that?
People have preconceived notions of what teenagers should or shouldn’t do in an adult world. They say the harm is young people lose their childhoods.
But maybe an increasing number of young people doing adult things (and successfully at that) is changing the landscape and meaning of “adult things” and “the adult world” rather than the other way around?
One thing’s for sure. Thompson’s third in greens-in-regulation and fifth in average driving distance on the LPGA Tour this season took a well deserved break so she could just be a “kid” this weekend.
And I bet she was amazing at that too.
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Opinion & Analysis
The 2 primary challenges golf equipment companies face

As the editor-in-chief of this website and an observer of the GolfWRX forums and other online golf equipment discourse for over a decade, I’m pretty well attuned to the grunts and grumbles of a significant portion of the golf equipment purchasing spectrum. And before you accuse me of lording above all in some digital ivory tower, I’d like to offer that I worked at golf courses (public and private) for years prior to picking up my pen, so I’m well-versed in the non-degenerate golf equipment consumers out there. I touched (green)grass (retail)!
Complaints about the ills of and related to the OEMs usually follow some version of: Product cycles are too short for real innovation, tour equipment isn’t the same as retail (which is largely not true, by the way), too much is invested in marketing and not enough in R&D, top staffer X hasn’t even put the new driver in play, so it’s obviously not superior to the previous generation, prices are too high, and on and on.
Without digging into the merits of any of these claims, which I believe are mostly red herrings, I’d like to bring into view of our rangefinder what I believe to be the two primary difficulties golf equipment companies face.
One: As Terry Koehler, back when he was the CEO of Ben Hogan, told me at the time of the Ft Worth irons launch, if you can’t regularly hit the golf ball in a coin-sized area in the middle of the face, there’s not a ton that iron technology can do for you. Now, this is less true now with respect to irons than when he said it, and is less and less true by degrees as the clubs get larger (utilities, fairways, hybrids, drivers), but there remains a great deal of golf equipment truth in that statement. Think about it — which is to say, in TL;DR fashion, get lessons from a qualified instructor who will teach you about the fundamentals of repeatable impact and how the golf swing works, not just offer band-aid fixes. If you can’t repeatably deliver the golf club to the golf ball in something resembling the manner it was designed for, how can you expect to be getting the most out of the club — put another way, the maximum value from your investment?
Similarly, game improvement equipment can only improve your game if you game it. In other words, get fit for the clubs you ought to be playing rather than filling the bag with the ones you wish you could hit or used to be able to hit. Of course, don’t do this if you don’t care about performance and just want to hit a forged blade while playing off an 18 handicap. That’s absolutely fine. There were plenty of members in clubs back in the day playing Hogan Apex or Mizuno MP-32 irons who had no business doing so from a ballstriking standpoint, but they enjoyed their look, feel, and complementary qualities to their Gatsby hats and cashmere sweaters. Do what brings you a measure of joy in this maddening game.
Now, the second issue. This is not a plea for non-conforming equipment; rather, it is a statement of fact. USGA/R&A limits on every facet of golf equipment are detrimental to golf equipment manufacturers. Sure, you know this, but do you think about it as it applies to almost every element of equipment? A 500cc driver would be inherently more forgiving than a 460cc, as one with a COR measurement in excess of 0.83. 50-inch shafts. Box grooves. And on and on.
Would fewer regulations be objectively bad for the game? Would this erode its soul? Fortunately, that’s beside the point of this exercise, which is merely to point out the facts. The fact, in this case, is that equipment restrictions and regulations are the slaughterbench of an abundance of innovation in the golf equipment space. Is this for the best? Well, now I’ve asked the question twice and might as well give a partial response, I guess my answer to that would be, “It depends on what type of golf you’re playing and who you’re playing it with.”
For my part, I don’t mind embarrassing myself with vintage blades and persimmons chasing after the quasi-spiritual elevation of a well-struck shot, but that’s just me. Plenty of folks don’t give a damn if their grooves are conforming. Plenty of folks think the folks in Liberty Corner ought to add a prison to the museum for such offences. And those are just a few of the considerations for the amateur game — which doesn’t get inside the gallery ropes of the pro game…
Different strokes in the game of golf, in my humble opinion.
Anyway, I believe equipment company engineers are genuinely trying to build better equipment year over year. The marketing departments are trying to find ways to make this equipment appeal to the broadest segment of the golf market possible. All of this against (1) the backdrop of — at least for now — firm product cycles. And golfers who, with their ~15 average handicap (men), for the most part, are not striping the golf ball like Tiger in his prime and seem to have less and less time year over year to practice and improve. (2) Regulations that massively restrict what they’re able to do…
That’s the landscape as I see it and the real headwinds for golf equipment companies. No doubt, there’s more I haven’t considered, but I think the previous is a better — and better faith — point of departure when formulating any serious commentary on the golf equipment world than some of the more cynical and conspiratorial takes I hear.
Agree? Disagree? Think I’m worthy of an Adam Hadwin-esque security guard tackle? Let me know in the comments.
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Podcasts
Fore Love of Golf: Introducing a new club concept

Episode #16 brings us Cliff McKinney. Cliff is the founder of Old Charlie Golf Club, a new club, and concept, to be built in the Florida panhandle. The model is quite interesting and aims to make great, private golf more affordable. We hope you enjoy the show!
Opinion & Analysis
On Scottie Scheffler wondering ‘What’s the point of winning?’

Last week, I came across a reel from BBC Sport on Instagram featuring Scottie Scheffler speaking to the media ahead of The Open at Royal Portrush. In it, he shared that he often wonders what the point is of wanting to win tournaments so badly — especially when he knows, deep down, that it doesn’t lead to a truly fulfilling life.
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“Is it great to be able to win tournaments and to accomplish the things I have in the game of golf? Yeah, it brings tears to my eyes just to think about it because I’ve literally worked my entire life to be good at this sport,” Scheffler said. “To have that kind of sense of accomplishment, I think, is a pretty cool feeling. To get to live out your dreams is very special, but at the end of the day, I’m not out here to inspire the next generation of golfers. I’m not out here to inspire someone to be the best player in the world, because what’s the point?”
Ironically — or perhaps perfectly — he went on to win the claret jug.
That question — what’s the point of winning? — cuts straight to the heart of the human journey.
As someone who’s spent over two decades in the trenches of professional golf, and in deep study of the mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of the game, I see Scottie’s inner conflict as a sign of soul evolution in motion.
I came to golf late. I wasn’t a junior standout or college All-American. At 27, I left a steady corporate job to see if I could be on the PGA Tour starting as a 14-handicap, average-length hitter. Over the years, my journey has been defined less by trophies and more by the relentless effort to navigate the deeply inequitable and gated system of professional golf — an effort that ultimately turned inward and helped me evolve as both a golfer and a person.
One perspective that helped me make sense of this inner dissonance around competition and our culture’s tendency to overvalue winning is the idea of soul evolution.
The University of Virginia’s Division of Perceptual Studies has done extensive research on reincarnation, and Netflix’s Surviving Death (Episode 6) explores the topic, too. Whether you take it literally or metaphorically, the idea that we’re on a long arc of growth — from beginner to sage elder — offers a profound perspective.
If you accept the premise literally, then terms like “young soul” and “old soul” start to hold meaning. However, even if we set the word “soul” aside, it’s easy to see that different levels of life experience produce different worldviews.
Newer souls — or people in earlier stages of their development — may be curious and kind but still lack discernment or depth. There is a naivety, and they don’t yet question as deeply, tending to see things in black and white, partly because certainty feels safer than confronting the unknown.
As we gain more experience, we begin to experiment. We test limits. We chase extreme external goals — sometimes at the expense of health, relationships, or inner peace — still operating from hunger, ambition, and the fragility of the ego.
It’s a necessary stage, but often a turbulent and unfulfilling one.
David Duval fell off the map after reaching World No. 1. Bubba Watson had his own “Is this it?” moment with his caddie, Ted Scott, after winning the Masters.
In Aaron Rodgers: Enigma, reflecting on his 2011 Super Bowl win, Rodgers said:
“Now I’ve accomplished the only thing that I really, really wanted to do in my life. Now what? I was like, ‘Did I aim at the wrong thing? Did I spend too much time thinking about stuff that ultimately doesn’t give you true happiness?’”
Jim Carrey once said, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer.”
Eventually, though, something shifts.
We begin to see in shades of gray. Winning, dominating, accumulating—these pursuits lose their shine. The rewards feel more fleeting. Living in a constant state of fight-or-flight makes us feel alive, yes, but not happy and joyful.
Compassion begins to replace ambition. Love, presence, and gratitude become more fulfilling than status, profits, or trophies. We crave balance over burnout. Collaboration over competition. Meaning over metrics.
Interestingly, if we zoom out, we can apply this same model to nations and cultures. Countries, like people, have a collective “soul stage” made up of the individuals within them.
Take the United States, for example. I’d place it as a mid-level soul: highly competitive and deeply driven, but still learning emotional maturity. Still uncomfortable with nuance. Still believing that more is always better. Despite its global wins, the U.S. currently ranks just 23rd in happiness (as of 2025). You might liken it to a gifted teenager—bold, eager, and ambitious, but angsty and still figuring out how to live well and in balance. As much as a parent wants to protect their child, sometimes the child has to make their own mistakes to truly grow.
So when Scottie Scheffler wonders what the point of winning is, I don’t see someone losing strength.
I see someone evolving.
He’s beginning to look beyond the leaderboard. Beyond metrics of success that carry a lower vibration. And yet, in a poetic twist, Scheffler did go on to win The Open. But that only reinforces the point: even at the pinnacle, the question remains. And if more of us in the golf and sports world — and in U.S. culture at large — started asking similar questions, we might discover that the more meaningful trophy isn’t about accumulating or beating others at all costs.
It’s about awakening and evolving to something more than winning could ever promise.