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The Moment That Separates Golfers

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The tendency of almost every golfer is to worry about getting things right. We obsess over our swings and whether or not our technique is correct. We want the ball to go exactly where we are aimed, and anything less than success usually results in disappointment. The hardest thing to come to terms with about this game is that we are going to have more mistakes than successes.

Because we are so preoccupied with getting things right, we ultimately don’t develop a much more important skill, which is how to deal with our failures. You might not think it’s true, but being able to handle your mistakes on the course is actually just as important as fixing your swing if you really want to improve. I like to think of it as the moment that separates golfers.

The One Tip I Never Forgot

When I was a teenager and really starting to take golf seriously, I had the privilege of learning under a great Australian teacher named Alex for a few weeks. He was an aspiring professional player, and in his spare time he would teach juniors how to play the game for extra money. Aside from all of the technical information that he gave me to improve my swing, there was one conversation we had during a round that I’ll never forget.

I was having an absolutely dreadful day, and had mentally packed it in. He pulled me aside on the back nine, looked me in the eye and told me, “Jon, your round is never over. Every single shot is an opportunity to turn things around. You never know when it’s going to come.”

In all of the tips I’ve received over the years, I always look back at this one as the most important. Almost 20 years later I know exactly what he is talking about. Every round of golf is going to be filled with bad shots. How you react to each one mostly determines how the rest of your day is going to go.

Resolve and Staying Present

The two greatest tools a golfer can have are resolve and the ability to stay present. That’s exactly what Alex was talking about when he pulled me aside that day. No matter how great your swing is, or how well your round is going, you are going to be facing adversity on the golf course. These are the moments that separate the good players from the average ones.

All of the best golfers I have ever been around have a remarkable ability to not let their mistakes rattle them. They keep their focus on the shot at hand, and never give up hope that a good stretch of holes is about to begin.

One of the major breakthroughs I had in my game was beginning to take control of my emotions. I’m only human, so I do continue to struggle with getting down on myself after a bad tee shot or a missed par put. However, there is no question the rounds where I shoot my best scores are the ones where I can conquer these negative thoughts.

How Do You Conquer the Moment?

When I refer to “the moment,” I am talking about when your tee shot finds the trees after you just made a few pars in a row. It’s when out of nowhere you chunk a 7-iron in the fairway. I could go on, but you get the point.

Every single golfer at every level has these moments, and they are all relative to our own games. A missed green to a scratch golfer can be just as mentally damaging as the topped drive to a 30-handicap.

If I had a foolproof solution for how to control your emotions when these things happen, then I wouldn’t be writing this article right now. I’d be sipping a cold beer on my 100-foot yacht or playing a round at Augusta, because I would have solved the most important problem in all of golf, and people would be throwing money at me to find out my secret.

The reason why it’s impossible to solve this issue is because we are human. It’s in our nature to let our expectations get the best of us, and lose our composure when something happens that we don’t think should. That being said, the first step to improving your ability to stay in the moment during a round is to give up this notion that all of your shots are supposed to turn out well.

Embrace that horrible tee shot; it was supposed to happen.

That’s not to say you should be happy about it, but you have to accept that it occurred, and do your best to not let it affect your next shot (file that in the easier-said-than-done drawer).

A Little Perspective

Here’s the good news. You can break 100, 90, or even 80 while making a ton of mistakes. I had a round last year where I did not advance the ball more than 50 yards on three of my tee shots. It was terribly embarrassing, but I was able to laugh each one off and go on with my day. I ended up shooting a 75 after making birdie on three of the last four holes. It easily could been a round where I packed it in after a third horrific tee shot, but on that day I was able to conquer those moments.

The key is to not let your initial mistakes lead to other ones. Again, this is insanely difficult, and even the best golfers of all time have routinely failed at this.

If you can get incrementally better at conquering these moments on the course, you will see strokes coming off your scores. I’ve watched players with the most beautiful swings you’ve ever seen never reach their potential because they couldn’t control their emotions. I’ve also seen golfers with what many would consider bizarre swings shoot amazing scores because they never let their bad shots get to them.

Expectations are everything in golf. If you can start to be more realistic with what you expect of yourself on each shot, then it will help you deal with the inevitable failures that occur in every single round. In other words, don’t be so hard on yourself, and focus on the shot at hand.

Jon is the author of the bestselling book, "101 Mistakes All Golfers Make (and how to fix them)". He is the owner of Practical Golf, a site dedicated to being an honest resource for golfers of all levels looking to improve their games. His advice is written through a player’s perspective, and he is passionate about coaching golfers in their quest to lower their scores and enjoy the game more. Overall, Jon believes golf is a difficult game, but it doesn’t have to be a complicated one. You can find him on Twitter @practicalgolf, where he is happy to chat about golf with anyone.

15 Comments

15 Comments

  1. NLB

    Apr 26, 2016 at 7:00 pm

    Yeah that’s what they all say, this is the anonymous web, dontcha know

  2. not smizzle

    Apr 26, 2016 at 12:48 am

    At this moment, there are only 2 shanks for this article, which is GolfWRX record. I came here to say “well done”!

  3. Double Mocha Man

    Apr 25, 2016 at 8:31 pm

    As a college golfer I was not the longest, not the most accurate, not the best putter of the ball. But I had a 34 – 5 record in individual matches. I let myself give up, I quit on myself, I threw in the towel, I stopped caring… AFTER the ball fell into the cup on the 18th hole. That was my approach and it worked. I simply outlasted my opponents and I’m sure that frustrated them.

  4. tony

    Apr 25, 2016 at 10:35 am

    so is your recipe for on-course success to expect a perfect round with no adversity? if that’s the mindset that breeds success how do you recommend golfers react when they do face adversity on the course?

    and by the way participation trophies have been around forever bud. Just about every sport for decades provided season end trophies. Everyone acts like this is some new phenomenon millennials invented but it aint. I’ve seen dozens of trophies from basketball, football, and baseball my 65 year old father accrued growing up that weren’t exclusively for region, county, and or state championships.

  5. Pops

    Apr 25, 2016 at 2:43 am

    None of that stuff matters.
    In the amateur world, in the public golf course world, the most important thing, and the first thing that I learned, in respect to all golfers, the course, the marshals, and the greenskeepers, and the game, is……….
    “Leave the course in as good as shape as you found it. Fix all divots, rake bunkers, repair as many ballmarks, and pick up any trash you come across left behind by others. Because you know who’s coming behind you? Other players. And if everybody does the same, the course will be as good as it can be.”
    I didn’t even hit a ball before I was told that, by the first people who told me what the game was about, when I was 4. I guess I had really decent people around me then.
    It’s a shame what the game has degenerated into.

    • Mat

      Apr 25, 2016 at 7:19 am

      “Back in my day, we played golf with white balls in the snow, and walked uphill on every hole. We all wore spats and appreciated the senior members who still played hickory.”

      GET OFF MY LAWN

    • Brad

      Apr 25, 2016 at 1:57 pm

      What does that even mean? LOL.

      Someone opened up the wrong flap on their weekly pill dispenser… It’s MONDAY Pops.

      Good Lord.

    • Cazzo

      Apr 26, 2016 at 1:46 am

      Pops has got it right and has separated himself you numbskulls

    • Duncan Castles

      Apr 26, 2016 at 12:37 pm

      The two most important rules of golf. 1) Don’t hit your ball until the group in front are out of range. 2) Repair the course as you play.
      Sadly, there are a number of people out there who consider these optional.

  6. larrybud

    Apr 24, 2016 at 9:43 pm

    Smiz, if you think every great player never had a bad day, then I honestly have to wonder if you actually play golf. The best golfers in the world lose most of the time. The best player in the last 40 years at his best was winning only 1/3 of the time.

    I honestly don’t know how you arrived at your conclusion reading the same article I did. This isn’t about getting a participation trophy or saying it’s OK to be bad. It’s about staying mentally in the present when things aren’t going your way, so that you can pull out of the funk and start playing up to your potential.

    How do you want players to react when they’re off for the day? Throw some clubs, take chunks out of the course, quit after 9?

  7. Derek

    Apr 24, 2016 at 8:48 pm

    You got it right here and I have been trying to improve my focus and not get distracted by a bad shot or an unlucky bounce. I see now my next progression will be able to reset and think clearly so I don’t set myself up to make a second mistake.
    Still think the biggest challenge is listening to other people you play with and their running commentary of what they just did wrong, how tough you lie is and all the other issues with the world.
    It’s a lot easier to play with three positive individuals that look forward. I see the opportunity to support my playing partners play well by complimenting their good shots and just not commenting on anything other.

  8. Other Paul

    Apr 24, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    I am not sure what i think of this article. In my last 9 hole round i shot 43. I was one over standing on the 7th tee. It was a 600 yard par 5. I made bogey. I was okay with that. Next tee i pretty much topped my wedge on a par 3. I finished with another bogey. I was still okay with that. I have never shot a 39 on 9 holes before. I was still thinking “This could still be my best round ever”. Then i topped my tee shot into a pond and ended the round with a 4 putt. When my pride and ego get ahead of me i flop. Every time. It drives me crazy. I hit 3 GIR. But i had a hand full of one putts (1.5 putts per hole average even with a 4 putt). If i missed the green i hit my wedges inside 15′ and made the putt. If I can stop beating myself i could shoot par on 9 holes this summer at least once.

  9. Ralph White

    Apr 24, 2016 at 6:05 pm

    Mr. Smizzle.

    You write like a Navy SEAL or a gore-soaked viking. It’s a game. A terrible, complicated game where no one: NO ONE starts as a great shooter. Showing up, putting in the hours and trying is the only way to improve. By your logic, everyone should pack it up that doesn’t come on their first day with a set of Callaways on their first day and break 80. People like you drive beginners (some would have been GREATS) and recreational gamers off the course with your rather bizarre and faulted attitude that this is some sort of blood sport, where the weak are culled for human sacrifice and only those who can bench press 300 while driving the cart on two wheels may get past the putting facility. Quite frankly, you are WRONG. Coach Lombardi would tell you: Champions have character in equal parts to their talent. Character is what prevails when talent fails you on any given stroke.

    Good luck to your game, and your set of mega-dollar, bent over your knee clubs. I laugh out loud when I mis-hit. Ask any of my playing partners…. it’s not weakness, it’s called enjoying the game.

  10. Jon Sherman

    Apr 24, 2016 at 3:51 pm

    Mr. Smizzle – I welcome all feedback on my articles (even negative), but I’m having a hard time understanding how you came to that conclusion. I think Derek’s interpretation was a bit more appropriate.

    I’m not here to lower golfers’ expectations, I’m here to make them more realistic. Even the best rounds of golf ever played featured mistakes that those players had to overcome. It’s just not possible to have perfection in golf. How you react is the essence of mental toughness, which is something I think every golfer can benefit from.

    Either way, thanks for your feedback and hopefully I cleared it up a little bit for you.

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Brandel Chamblee PGA Championship Q&A: Rose’s huge McLaren risk, distracted LIV pros and why Aronimink suits the bombers

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PGA Championship week is here, and Brandel Chamblee did not hold back in our latest discussion ahead of the season’s second major.

In our 2026 PGA Championship Q&A, golf’s leading analyst made the case that PIF pulling LIV’s funding has left its players competing in a state of confusion, called Justin Rose’s mid-season equipment switch a huge risk at 45, and explained why Aronimink will be a bombers’ delight this week.

Check out the full Q&A below.

Gianni: With the PIF confirming that they’re pulling funding from LIV at the end of the season, what impact do you expect that to have on the LIV players competing at the PGA Championship?

Brandel: I would imagine that they have all been thrown into a state of confusion, and will be distracted, not knowing where they are going to play next year and not knowing exactly their road back to either the DP World Tour or the PGA Tour. Or in Rahm’s case, being tied to a sinking ship for the next few years, likely playing for pennies on the dollar in events that no one cares about or watches.

I doubt this would put him in the best frame of mind to compete at his highest level. Keeping in mind, however, that majors are the only time that LIV disciples get to play in events that matter, so never disregard the motivation they have to prove to the world they are still relevant.

Gianni: Justin Rose switched to McLaren Golf equipment mid-season while playing some of the best golf of his career. What do you make of the change?

Brandel: I don’t really know what to make of Rose switching equipment. It seems a huge risk on his part, even though it is likely, in my opinion, that the clubs he’s playing are similar, if not the exact grinds, to what he was playing previously, with a McLaren stamp on them.

Having said that, at best, it is a distraction when he seemed to be as dialed in with his game as any 45-year-old could be and trending in the majors to perhaps do something that would definitely put him in the Hall of Fame. At worst, given the possibility that these clubs aren’t just duplicates of his old set stamped with McLaren on them, he’s made an equipment change that would take time, and 45-year-old athletes don’t have the time to do such things.

Gianni: Aronimink has only hosted a handful of professional events since it hosted the 1962 PGA Championship. What kind of test does it present, and does a course with less recent major championship history tend to level the playing field?

Brandel: Even though Aronimink has only hosted a handful of meaningful professional events, it has been fairly discerning in who can win there. When Keegan Bradley won the BMW Championship on the Donald Ross masterpiece in 2018, he was the 2nd best iron player on tour coming into that week. When Nick Watney won the AT&T at Aronimink in 2011, he was 2nd in strokes gained total coming into the week.

In 2020, Aronimink hosted the KPMG Championship, and Sei Young Kim won. On the LPGA that year, she was first in greens in regulation, putts per green in regulation, and scoring average on the way to being the LPGA player of the year. And then there is the 1962 PGA Championship won by Gary Player, who eventually became just one of a few players to win the career grand slam on the way to winning 9 majors. It is a formidable test, and if it’s not softened by rain, it will bring out the best in the upper echelons of the game.

Gianni: Is there a specific hole at Aronimink that you think will do the most to decide the winner?

Brandel: The hardest hole at Aronimink in each of the three tour events that have been played there since 2010 has been the long par-3 8th hole, with the par-4 10th being the second hardest, so most of the carnage will happen around the turn, but with the par-5 16th offering opportunities for bold plays and the tough closing holes at 17 and 18, the finish is likely to be frenetic.

Gianni: The PGA Championship has always sat in the shadow of the other majors. What does the ideal PGA Championship look like in your eyes, and what would it take for it to carve out its own identity?

Brandel: The PGA Championship, to whatever degree it suffers from the comparison to the other three majors, is still counted just as much when adding them up at the end of one’s career. Almost 1/3 of Nicklaus’ major wins were the five PGA Championships he won. Walter Hagen won 11 majors, five of which were PGA Championships.

Tiger Woods twice in his career won back-to-back PGA Championships, and those four majors count just as much as the other 11 he won. The PGA may not have the prestige of the other three, but it carries the same weight. Having said that, I preferred the identity that it had as the last major of the year.

Gianni: You nailed your Masters picks. Rory won, Scottie finished solo second, and Morikawa surged to a tie for seventh. Who are your top 3 picks for the PGA Championship and why?

Brandel: I am not a huge fan of majors played on golf courses that have been shorn of most of the trees, although I understand some of the agronomic reasons for doing so and of course the ease with which it allows members to play after errant drives. However, at the highest level, it all but eliminates any strategy off the tee and turns professional golf into an even bigger slugfest. That means that it will likely be a bomber’s delight this week, but fortunately, Scottie Scheffler is long enough to play that game and straight enough to play it better than anyone else.

The major championships give us very few surprises anymore, going back to the beginning of 2012, so the last 57 majors played, the average world rank of the winners has been better than 15th in the world. So look at the highest ranked and longest drivers who are on form coming into the PGA Championship who also have great short games as the surrounds at Aronimink are very challenging. That’s Scottie Scheffler by a mile and then McIlroy and Cameron Young with a far bigger nod towards DeChambeau than I gave him at the Masters.

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A putter that I love and hate – Club Junkie Podcast

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In this episode of the Club Junkie Podcast, we dive into one of the most interesting flatstick releases of the year with a full review of the new TaylorMade SYSTM 2 putters. After spending time on the greens, I break down what makes this design stand out, where it performs, and why it has me completely torn between loving it and fighting it. If you are into feel, alignment, and consistency, this is one you will want to hear about.

We also take a look at some of the putters in play on the PGA Tour last week. From familiar favorites to a few surprising setups, there is always something to learn from what the best players in the world are rolling with under pressure.

To wrap things up, I walk through the process of building a set of JP Golf Prime irons paired with Baddazz Gold Series shafts. From component selection to performance goals, this is a deep dive into what goes into creating a unique custom set and why this combo has been so intriguing.

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From 14 handicap to pro: 4 things I’d tell golfers at 50

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This year my 50th birthday. Gosh, where has the time gone?

As a teenager in rural Missouri, some of my junior high and high school years felt interminable. Graduation seemed light years away. But the older I get, the faster life seems to fly by.

I’m also increasingly aware of my mortality. My dad died recently. Earlier this year, a friend and fellow PGA of America professional and I were texting about our next catch-up. The next message I received was news of his unexpected passing at 48. Shortly after, a woman I dated in college succumbed to cancer at 51.

Certainly, one can share perspective at any age. Seniors help freshmen, veterans guide rookies. But reaching this milestone feels like as good a time as any to do one of those “what would I tell my younger self?” articles.

I’ve had a uniquely varied career in golf. I started as a 27-year-old, average-length-hitting, 14-handicap computer engineer and somehow managed to turn pro before running out of money, constantly bootstrapping my way forward. I’ve won qualifiers and set venue records in the World Long Drive Championships, finished fifth at the Speedgolf World Championships, coached all skill levels as a PGA of America professional, built industry-leading swing speed training programs for Swing Man Golf, helped advance the single-length iron market with Sterling Irons®, caddied on the PGA TOUR and PGA TOUR Champions, and played about 300 courses across 32 countries.

It’s been a ride, and I’ve gone both deep and wide.

So while I can consult and advise from a lot of angles, let me keep it to a few things I’d tell the average golfer who wants to improve.

1. Think About What You Want

Everyone has their own reason for picking up a golf club.

Oddly, as a professional athlete, I’m not internally driven by competition. That can be challenging, as the industry currently prioritizes and incentivizes competition over the love of the game.

For me, I love walking and being outdoors. Nature helps balance my energy. I prefer courses that are integrated into the natural beauty of their surroundings. I’m comfortable practicing alone. I’m a deep thinker, and I genuinely enjoy investigating the game, using data and intuition to unearth unique, often innovative insights. I’m fortunate to be strong and athletic, so I appreciate the chance to engage with my abilities. Traveling feels adventurous. I could go on.

You don’t have to overthink it like I do. For you, it might be as simple as hitting balls to escape work, hanging out with friends, and playing loosely with the rules and the score.

The point is to give yourself permission to play for your own reasons, and let that be enough.

But if improvement is your goal, thinking about your destination—and when you want to get there—is important, because it dictates the steps you need to take. When I set out to go from a 14-handicap to the PGA TOUR as quickly as possible, the steps I needed were very different from those of a working golfer trying to break 90 in six months. That’s also different from someone who just wants a few peaceful hours outside each week, away from work or family.

None of these goals are better than the others, but each requires a different plan that you can work backward from.

2. There Are Lots of Things That Can Work

One of the challenges of golf is that, although there are rules for playing, there aren’t clear, industry-wide standards for how to best play the game. There’s a lot of gray area.

You might hear a top coach or trainer insist that a certain move is the best way to swing or train. Then you dig a bit deeper and, much to your confusion and frustration, another respected coach or trainer says something completely different. I don’t think anyone is trying to confuse you—at least I hope not. It’s just where the industry is right now.

You have to be careful with advice from tournament pros, too. They might be great at scoring, but they’re also human and sometimes just as susceptible as amateurs to believing things that don’t really move the needle. Tour players might describe what they feel, but that’s not always what they’re actually doing when assessed with technology.

I recently ran a test on my YouTube channel (which connects to my GolfWRX article “How to use your hands in the golf swing for power and accuracy”), and, interestingly, two of the most commonly taught hand actions produced the worst results in the test.

Coaches can certainly help. If you find someone you connect with to help navigate, that’s great. But there are many ways to get the ball in the hole. In the current landscape, you may need to seek multiple opinions, think critically, and use your own intuition to discern what seems true and whose advice resonates with you.

I’d recommend seeking someone who is open-minded and always learning, because things constantly change. Absolutes like “correct” or “proper” should raise a red flag. AI can be useful, but it tends to confidently repeat popular advice, so proceed with caution.

3. Get Custom Fit

If you’re serious about becoming a better player, getting custom fit is hugely important. There’s no sense fighting your equipment if you don’t have to. Most better players get fit these days and, if they don’t, they’re usually skilled enough to work around clubs that aren’t ideal.

If you plan to play for a long time, it’s worth spending a little more upfront to get something that truly fits you and your game, rather than continually buying and discarding equipment.

Equipment rules haven’t really changed significantly since the early 2000s. To stay in business, manufacturers keep pushing those limits. If you pull a bunch of clubs and balls off the rack and test them, you’ll find differences. I’ve tested two new drivers and seen a 30-yard total distance gap. Usually, the issue isn’t bad equipment; it’s that the combination of components simply isn’t the best fit.

It’s like wearing a new pair of floppy clown shoes. Sure, they’re shoes—but you won’t sprint your best in them compared to track shoes that fit perfectly.

Be wary of what’s called custom fitting, too. Sometimes the term is used as a marketing strategy rather than an actual fitting. In some retail settings, fitters may be incentivized to steer you toward higher-priced components. That doesn’t automatically mean it’s not the best fit, but you should be aware of potential biases.

I learned a version of this lesson outside of golf. Years ago, I bought a tennis racquet at a big box store from a seemingly knowledgeable employee who thought it would suit me best. The racquet gave me tennis elbow, and I spent months recovering with rest and acupuncture. The next season, I invested more time and money to find what actually fit me, and I walked away with something amazing that I still play with years later.

So if you’re going to get fit, be smart about it.

Find someone you believe has deep knowledge—possibly with certifications, but not necessarily. Make sure there’s a wide inventory across many brands. Check recent reviews for the individual fitter if possible. Make sure you trust that the fitter has your best interests at heart. If they’re wearing a hat or shirt with a specific brand’s logo, proceed with caution. Unless you specifically want a certain brand or look, be wary of upsells, especially if two options perform nearly the same.

Also, while golf is called a sport of integrity, there’s a thread of manipulation in the industry. I once drafted an equipment article for an industry magazine, structured just like one of their previous popular stories, with matching word count and great photos. The assistant editor loved it; it was useful to readers and required little work on his part. But the editor-in-chief nixed the story. When I asked why, I was told it was because I wasn’t an advertiser. It turned out the article I’d modeled mine after was a paid ad cleverly disguised as editorial content.

I really dislike games, clickbait, and fear-based manipulation. I hope this changes, but golfers deserve to know it exists.

4. Distance and Strategy Matter

There’s a real relationship between how far you hit the ball and your scoring average, even at the PGA TOUR level.

I experienced this early in my pro career. I started as a power hitter, swinging in the high 120s and breaking 200 mph ball speed with a stock driver.

Back then, some instructors advised swinging at 80%, so I tried slowing down for more accuracy. That worked fine on shorter, tighter courses. But on longer setups, I was coming into greens with too much club, and par 5s stopped being

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