Opinion & Analysis
If you don’t have the confidence in yourself, you will always find a way not to improve

Editor’s note: This article was submitted by Featured Writer James Deaton.
The game of golf has always been a passion of mine. However, life gets in the way and I had to step away from the game for a few years. What I found when I returned to the game was eye-opening at the least. I am older now in my late fifties and so much has changed since I have been away. I found immediately that my skill set has diminished greatly. I no longer had the swing speed for example or the flexibility to get through the ball as I did because of back issues. Regardless, I was determined to improve and I was willing to put in the work.
I then found myself at the range using every swing aid from a divot board to alignment sticks. I got a set of irons that should have been the best fit for me, according to every article that I could find. This was my first mistake not getting properly fitted by a professional. We will return to that discovery at a later time. This only added to my frustration and it seems no matter what I did and regardless of how many hours I spent hitting ball after ball it was just not coming together as I had hoped. It wasn’t the clubs, It was simply that I would not commit to the changes that I needed to make.
One day I was on the putting green and an older gentleman was next to me. I watched him as putt after putt was falling from everywhere. Finally, out of total frustration, I asked him to look at my putting stroke. He only watched me make a few strokes and then told me that was enough. Confused about how quickly he stopped me, I asked him so what is wrong with my stroke?
He gently said to me that “If you don’t have confidence in yourself you will always find a way not to improve.”
I don’t think I will ever forget that advice.
It is very difficult to find your confidence in the sport of Golf when nothing is going right at the range, on the course, or even in lessons. An example, how many of us take lessons then after the lesson we completely fall apart? You try and make all the swing changes and thoughts work for you, and it’s a real struggle. If you don’t have confidence in the changes and how they will improve your game you will most likely resort back with nothing gained. It was clear that I needed to work on my mental game and my confidence was clearly shaken.
I found that for me, confidence was gained and retained in small steps and accomplishments. I took the steps of working from the green out to the tee box. I began on the putting green and received some lessons on my fundamentals. I felt like I was taking a step back, after all, I was a scratch golfer and played pretty well back then. However, I needed to face the reality of this game. I began to learn again and that taught me to gain confidence also required patience. I took my time and relearned the fundamentals offered myself patience and took small steps forward. In every step I took forward my confidence grew. The more I started to believe in myself the more putts began to fall. I began to look at the thirty-foot putts with more confidence and that they can be made. I had to remind myself that anything can happen if work on the fundamentals. Of course, you don’t make all of them not even remotely close. But I began to make a few difficult putts. As we all know, there are days when everything seems to fall apart and days when nothing gets anywhere near the cup. However, if your confidence is there, you will work your way through the hard rounds you will continue to improve.
I now had to find the same confidence for the rest of my game. One day I walked on the range and looked around me. I found I was not alone in my struggles. There were golfers of all skill levels with different training aids. They were working on swing plane, coming over the top, coming too far from the inside, everything you usually see on a range, but don’t really usually pay attention to. When you have no confidence we all seek out the spot on the line that is furthest from anyone. However, I was there to build my confidence. I then found a gentleman hitting irons with such beautiful draws, solid and crisp. I took the spot next to him and decided to pull the band-aid off quickly. I warmed up feeling that every eye on the range was watching me as I hit it fat or thin and basically spraying the ball everywhere. Then I remembered what my goal was and that was to build my confidence and not allow another person’s skill level to reduce mine. So I took a step back, took a breath, and began to hit soft wedges, a slower swing speed, focused on contact. In other words, I was patient, and I focused the entire session on it. I did this for the next few weeks working my way through the irons and my confidence began to return.
My patience began to reward me as my confidence grew. I was able to commit to the swing thoughts in my lessons and I improved. Once again small steps with patience were the recipe for my confidence to grow.
All of that confidence was growing until it came time to work on my driver. It was a complete disaster. Any progress I had made with my confidence, and my patience, immediately left. I was quickly resorting back to my mistakes and found myself at the end of the range line again alone. When I realized this, I forced myself to go back to the center of the line. It was then that I did the unthinkable as any golfer can relate. I gathered my courage and removed my pride. I teed the ball, took the driver back only a few feet, and softly swung through the ball. I continued slowly as I began to find the feel again. I would take the driver back further, focusing on fundamentals as I maintained my posture through the ball as my instructor had shown me. Patience and humility, I reminded myself. Just be confident that you are doing the right things and you will improve.
It took a couple of weeks before I felt it was time to work on my speed. I was once told that “the scorecard does not care how far you hit the ball just where you hit the ball.” With that thought in mind, I was not going bomb it or to try and draw the ball or hit a fade, as straight as possible was my goal. I slowly built up my speed to where I was confident that I would hit the fairway. The distance would come in time I told myself. The patience once again rewarded me and I found myself improving my distance. Most important of all, I gained the confidence to trust my swing, by focusing on the fundamentals and I began to find more fairways. The more fairways I found the lower my score was in relation.
Ask any serious golfer and they will tell you they are always working on some aspect of their game. There is always something that goes wrong, and we need to refocus and find our way back again. I learned that no matter what your skill level is, regardless if you are an elite golfer or a recreational golfer you must discover how to build your confidence and in some cases how to recover it. It takes not only confidence in your abilities but also in your ability to have the patience to learn. It was having the patience to take small steps that brought small achievements that built my confidence. Perhaps something in my experience will help you find confidence, if only to remind you of how important it is in this game that we love so much.
Opinion & Analysis
The 2 primary challenges golf equipment companies face

As the editor-in-chief of this website and an observer of the GolfWRX forums and other online golf equipment discourse for over a decade, I’m pretty well attuned to the grunts and grumbles of a significant portion of the golf equipment purchasing spectrum. And before you accuse me of lording above all in some digital ivory tower, I’d like to offer that I worked at golf courses (public and private) for years prior to picking up my pen, so I’m well-versed in the non-degenerate golf equipment consumers out there. I touched (green)grass (retail)!
Complaints about the ills of and related to the OEMs usually follow some version of: Product cycles are too short for real innovation, tour equipment isn’t the same as retail (which is largely not true, by the way), too much is invested in marketing and not enough in R&D, top staffer X hasn’t even put the new driver in play, so it’s obviously not superior to the previous generation, prices are too high, and on and on.
Without digging into the merits of any of these claims, which I believe are mostly red herrings, I’d like to bring into view of our rangefinder what I believe to be the two primary difficulties golf equipment companies face.
One: As Terry Koehler, back when he was the CEO of Ben Hogan, told me at the time of the Ft Worth irons launch, if you can’t regularly hit the golf ball in a coin-sized area in the middle of the face, there’s not a ton that iron technology can do for you. Now, this is less true now with respect to irons than when he said it, and is less and less true by degrees as the clubs get larger (utilities, fairways, hybrids, drivers), but there remains a great deal of golf equipment truth in that statement. Think about it — which is to say, in TL;DR fashion, get lessons from a qualified instructor who will teach you about the fundamentals of repeatable impact and how the golf swing works, not just offer band-aid fixes. If you can’t repeatably deliver the golf club to the golf ball in something resembling the manner it was designed for, how can you expect to be getting the most out of the club — put another way, the maximum value from your investment?
Similarly, game improvement equipment can only improve your game if you game it. In other words, get fit for the clubs you ought to be playing rather than filling the bag with the ones you wish you could hit or used to be able to hit. Of course, don’t do this if you don’t care about performance and just want to hit a forged blade while playing off an 18 handicap. That’s absolutely fine. There were plenty of members in clubs back in the day playing Hogan Apex or Mizuno MP-32 irons who had no business doing so from a ballstriking standpoint, but they enjoyed their look, feel, and complementary qualities to their Gatsby hats and cashmere sweaters. Do what brings you a measure of joy in this maddening game.
Now, the second issue. This is not a plea for non-conforming equipment; rather, it is a statement of fact. USGA/R&A limits on every facet of golf equipment are detrimental to golf equipment manufacturers. Sure, you know this, but do you think about it as it applies to almost every element of equipment? A 500cc driver would be inherently more forgiving than a 460cc, as one with a COR measurement in excess of 0.83. 50-inch shafts. Box grooves. And on and on.
Would fewer regulations be objectively bad for the game? Would this erode its soul? Fortunately, that’s beside the point of this exercise, which is merely to point out the facts. The fact, in this case, is that equipment restrictions and regulations are the slaughterbench of an abundance of innovation in the golf equipment space. Is this for the best? Well, now I’ve asked the question twice and might as well give a partial response, I guess my answer to that would be, “It depends on what type of golf you’re playing and who you’re playing it with.”
For my part, I don’t mind embarrassing myself with vintage blades and persimmons chasing after the quasi-spiritual elevation of a well-struck shot, but that’s just me. Plenty of folks don’t give a damn if their grooves are conforming. Plenty of folks think the folks in Liberty Corner ought to add a prison to the museum for such offences. And those are just a few of the considerations for the amateur game — which doesn’t get inside the gallery ropes of the pro game…
Different strokes in the game of golf, in my humble opinion.
Anyway, I believe equipment company engineers are genuinely trying to build better equipment year over year. The marketing departments are trying to find ways to make this equipment appeal to the broadest segment of the golf market possible. All of this against (1) the backdrop of — at least for now — firm product cycles. And golfers who, with their ~15 average handicap (men), for the most part, are not striping the golf ball like Tiger in his prime and seem to have less and less time year over year to practice and improve. (2) Regulations that massively restrict what they’re able to do…
That’s the landscape as I see it and the real headwinds for golf equipment companies. No doubt, there’s more I haven’t considered, but I think the previous is a better — and better faith — point of departure when formulating any serious commentary on the golf equipment world than some of the more cynical and conspiratorial takes I hear.
Agree? Disagree? Think I’m worthy of an Adam Hadwin-esque security guard tackle? Let me know in the comments.
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Fore Love of Golf: Introducing a new club concept

Episode #16 brings us Cliff McKinney. Cliff is the founder of Old Charlie Golf Club, a new club, and concept, to be built in the Florida panhandle. The model is quite interesting and aims to make great, private golf more affordable. We hope you enjoy the show!
Opinion & Analysis
On Scottie Scheffler wondering ‘What’s the point of winning?’

Last week, I came across a reel from BBC Sport on Instagram featuring Scottie Scheffler speaking to the media ahead of The Open at Royal Portrush. In it, he shared that he often wonders what the point is of wanting to win tournaments so badly — especially when he knows, deep down, that it doesn’t lead to a truly fulfilling life.
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“Is it great to be able to win tournaments and to accomplish the things I have in the game of golf? Yeah, it brings tears to my eyes just to think about it because I’ve literally worked my entire life to be good at this sport,” Scheffler said. “To have that kind of sense of accomplishment, I think, is a pretty cool feeling. To get to live out your dreams is very special, but at the end of the day, I’m not out here to inspire the next generation of golfers. I’m not out here to inspire someone to be the best player in the world, because what’s the point?”
Ironically — or perhaps perfectly — he went on to win the claret jug.
That question — what’s the point of winning? — cuts straight to the heart of the human journey.
As someone who’s spent over two decades in the trenches of professional golf, and in deep study of the mental, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of the game, I see Scottie’s inner conflict as a sign of soul evolution in motion.
I came to golf late. I wasn’t a junior standout or college All-American. At 27, I left a steady corporate job to see if I could be on the PGA Tour starting as a 14-handicap, average-length hitter. Over the years, my journey has been defined less by trophies and more by the relentless effort to navigate the deeply inequitable and gated system of professional golf — an effort that ultimately turned inward and helped me evolve as both a golfer and a person.
One perspective that helped me make sense of this inner dissonance around competition and our culture’s tendency to overvalue winning is the idea of soul evolution.
The University of Virginia’s Division of Perceptual Studies has done extensive research on reincarnation, and Netflix’s Surviving Death (Episode 6) explores the topic, too. Whether you take it literally or metaphorically, the idea that we’re on a long arc of growth — from beginner to sage elder — offers a profound perspective.
If you accept the premise literally, then terms like “young soul” and “old soul” start to hold meaning. However, even if we set the word “soul” aside, it’s easy to see that different levels of life experience produce different worldviews.
Newer souls — or people in earlier stages of their development — may be curious and kind but still lack discernment or depth. There is a naivety, and they don’t yet question as deeply, tending to see things in black and white, partly because certainty feels safer than confronting the unknown.
As we gain more experience, we begin to experiment. We test limits. We chase extreme external goals — sometimes at the expense of health, relationships, or inner peace — still operating from hunger, ambition, and the fragility of the ego.
It’s a necessary stage, but often a turbulent and unfulfilling one.
David Duval fell off the map after reaching World No. 1. Bubba Watson had his own “Is this it?” moment with his caddie, Ted Scott, after winning the Masters.
In Aaron Rodgers: Enigma, reflecting on his 2011 Super Bowl win, Rodgers said:
“Now I’ve accomplished the only thing that I really, really wanted to do in my life. Now what? I was like, ‘Did I aim at the wrong thing? Did I spend too much time thinking about stuff that ultimately doesn’t give you true happiness?’”
Jim Carrey once said, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s not the answer.”
Eventually, though, something shifts.
We begin to see in shades of gray. Winning, dominating, accumulating—these pursuits lose their shine. The rewards feel more fleeting. Living in a constant state of fight-or-flight makes us feel alive, yes, but not happy and joyful.
Compassion begins to replace ambition. Love, presence, and gratitude become more fulfilling than status, profits, or trophies. We crave balance over burnout. Collaboration over competition. Meaning over metrics.
Interestingly, if we zoom out, we can apply this same model to nations and cultures. Countries, like people, have a collective “soul stage” made up of the individuals within them.
Take the United States, for example. I’d place it as a mid-level soul: highly competitive and deeply driven, but still learning emotional maturity. Still uncomfortable with nuance. Still believing that more is always better. Despite its global wins, the U.S. currently ranks just 23rd in happiness (as of 2025). You might liken it to a gifted teenager—bold, eager, and ambitious, but angsty and still figuring out how to live well and in balance. As much as a parent wants to protect their child, sometimes the child has to make their own mistakes to truly grow.
So when Scottie Scheffler wonders what the point of winning is, I don’t see someone losing strength.
I see someone evolving.
He’s beginning to look beyond the leaderboard. Beyond metrics of success that carry a lower vibration. And yet, in a poetic twist, Scheffler did go on to win The Open. But that only reinforces the point: even at the pinnacle, the question remains. And if more of us in the golf and sports world — and in U.S. culture at large — started asking similar questions, we might discover that the more meaningful trophy isn’t about accumulating or beating others at all costs.
It’s about awakening and evolving to something more than winning could ever promise.
geohogan
Aug 11, 2023 at 8:59 am
ChatGPT:the phenomenon you described is a well-known psychological test and illustrates an essential aspect of how our minds work. The test shows that trying not to think about something, like monkeys in this case, tends to lead to thoughts about it. This is known as the “Ironic Process Theory” or the “White Bear Phenomenon,” first introduced by Daniel Wegner.
The theory suggests that when we try to suppress certain thoughts actively, we ironically end up bringing those thoughts to the forefront of our minds. This happens because the subconscious mind does not process negatives directly. When we are told not to think about something, the subconscious mind tends to focus on the subject itself to determine what not to think about.
From top of BS to Impact is less than 1/4 second.. far too short a time for conscious control. Our subconscious fulfils more than 98% of our intentions (Ref Dr David Eagleman). Chain action links such as golf swing require us to surrender to our subconscious to achieve desired results. That means creating positive intentions, by a singular intention. .. call it creative confidence.
Fred Layton
Jul 28, 2023 at 1:18 pm
Aargh.
The author’s egotism actually has very little to do with most people’s progress or lack thereof, except to the extent people with it, like him, regard said progress with mental bs.
Striking the ball properly is a physical skill, which those who can do it have managed to invest with near mystical properties as some feat of mental strength,, to the detriment of everybody else.
You should not have confidence in doing well that which you cannot do.
Simple enough.