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If you don’t have the confidence in yourself, you will always find a way not to improve

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Editor’s note: This article was submitted by Featured Writer James Deaton. 

The game of golf has always been a passion of mine. However, life gets in the way and I had to step away from the game for a few years. What I found when I returned to the game was eye-opening at the least. I am older now in my late fifties and so much has changed since I have been away. I found immediately that my skill set has diminished greatly. I no longer had the swing speed for example or the flexibility to get through the ball as I did because of back issues. Regardless, I was determined to improve and I was willing to put in the work.

I then found myself at the range using every swing aid from a divot board to alignment sticks. I got a set of irons that should have been the best fit for me, according to every article that I could find. This was my first mistake not getting properly fitted by a professional. We will return to that discovery at a later time. This only added to my frustration and it seems no matter what I did and regardless of how many hours I spent hitting ball after ball it was just not coming together as I had hoped. It wasn’t the clubs, It was simply that I would not commit to the changes that I needed to make.

One day I was on the putting green and an older gentleman was next to me. I watched him as putt after putt was falling from everywhere. Finally, out of total frustration, I asked him to look at my putting stroke. He only watched me make a few strokes and then told me that was enough. Confused about how quickly he stopped me, I asked him so what is wrong with my stroke?

He gently said to me that “If you don’t have confidence in yourself you will always find a way not to improve.”

I don’t think I will ever forget that advice.

It is very difficult to find your confidence in the sport of Golf when nothing is going right at the range, on the course, or even in lessons. An example, how many of us take lessons then after the lesson we completely fall apart? You try and make all the swing changes and thoughts work for you, and it’s a real struggle. If you don’t have confidence in the changes and how they will improve your game you will most likely resort back with nothing gained. It was clear that I needed to work on my mental game and my confidence was clearly shaken.

I found that for me, confidence was gained and retained in small steps and accomplishments. I took the steps of working from the green out to the tee box. I began on the putting green and received some lessons on my fundamentals. I felt like I was taking a step back, after all, I was a scratch golfer and played pretty well back then. However, I needed to face the reality of this game. I began to learn again and that taught me to gain confidence also required patience. I took my time and relearned the fundamentals offered myself patience and took small steps forward. In every step I took forward my confidence grew. The more I started to believe in myself the more putts began to fall. I began to look at the thirty-foot putts with more confidence and that they can be made. I had to remind myself that anything can happen if work on the fundamentals. Of course, you don’t make all of them not even remotely close. But I began to make a few difficult putts. As we all know, there are days when everything seems to fall apart and days when nothing gets anywhere near the cup. However, if your confidence is there, you will work your way through the hard rounds you will continue to improve.

I now had to find the same confidence for the rest of my game. One day I walked on the range and looked around me. I found I was not alone in my struggles. There were golfers of all skill levels with different training aids. They were working on swing plane, coming over the top, coming too far from the inside, everything you usually see on a range, but don’t really usually pay attention to. When you have no confidence we all seek out the spot on the line that is furthest from anyone. However, I was there to build my confidence. I then found a gentleman hitting irons with such beautiful draws, solid and crisp. I took the spot next to him and decided to pull the band-aid off quickly. I warmed up feeling that every eye on the range was watching me as I hit it fat or thin and basically spraying the ball everywhere. Then I remembered what my goal was and that was to build my confidence and not allow another person’s skill level to reduce mine. So I took a step back, took a breath, and began to hit soft wedges, a slower swing speed, focused on contact. In other words, I was patient, and I focused the entire session on it. I did this for the next few weeks working my way through the irons and my confidence began to return.

My patience began to reward me as my confidence grew. I was able to commit to the swing thoughts in my lessons and I improved. Once again small steps with patience were the recipe for my confidence to grow.

All of that confidence was growing until it came time to work on my driver. It was a complete disaster. Any progress I had made with my confidence, and my patience, immediately left. I was quickly resorting back to my mistakes and found myself at the end of the range line again alone. When I realized this, I forced myself to go back to the center of the line. It was then that I did the unthinkable as any golfer can relate. I gathered my courage and removed my pride. I teed the ball, took the driver back only a few feet, and softly swung through the ball. I continued slowly as I began to find the feel again. I would take the driver back further, focusing on fundamentals as I maintained my posture through the ball as my instructor had shown me. Patience and humility, I reminded myself. Just be confident that you are doing the right things and you will improve.

It took a couple of weeks before I felt it was time to work on my speed. I was once told that “the scorecard does not care how far you hit the ball just where you hit the ball.” With that thought in mind, I was not going bomb it or to try and draw the ball or hit a fade, as straight as possible was my goal. I slowly built up my speed to where I was confident that I would hit the fairway. The distance would come in time I told myself. The patience once again rewarded me and I found myself improving my distance. Most important of all, I gained the confidence to trust my swing, by focusing on the fundamentals and I began to find more fairways. The more fairways I found the lower my score was in relation.

Ask any serious golfer and they will tell you they are always working on some aspect of their game. There is always something that goes wrong, and we need to refocus and find our way back again. I learned that no matter what your skill level is, regardless if you are an elite golfer or a recreational golfer you must discover how to build your confidence and in some cases how to recover it. It takes not only confidence in your abilities but also in your ability to have the patience to learn. It was having the patience to take small steps that brought small achievements that built my confidence. Perhaps something in my experience will help you find confidence, if only to remind you of how important it is in this game that we love so much.

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  1. geohogan

    Aug 11, 2023 at 8:59 am

    ChatGPT:the phenomenon you described is a well-known psychological test and illustrates an essential aspect of how our minds work. The test shows that trying not to think about something, like monkeys in this case, tends to lead to thoughts about it. This is known as the “Ironic Process Theory” or the “White Bear Phenomenon,” first introduced by Daniel Wegner.
    The theory suggests that when we try to suppress certain thoughts actively, we ironically end up bringing those thoughts to the forefront of our minds. This happens because the subconscious mind does not process negatives directly. When we are told not to think about something, the subconscious mind tends to focus on the subject itself to determine what not to think about.

    From top of BS to Impact is less than 1/4 second.. far too short a time for conscious control. Our subconscious fulfils more than 98% of our intentions (Ref Dr David Eagleman). Chain action links such as golf swing require us to surrender to our subconscious to achieve desired results. That means creating positive intentions, by a singular intention. .. call it creative confidence.

  2. Fred Layton

    Jul 28, 2023 at 1:18 pm

    Aargh.

    The author’s egotism actually has very little to do with most people’s progress or lack thereof, except to the extent people with it, like him, regard said progress with mental bs.

    Striking the ball properly is a physical skill, which those who can do it have managed to invest with near mystical properties as some feat of mental strength,, to the detriment of everybody else.

    You should not have confidence in doing well that which you cannot do.

    Simple enough.

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Brandel Chamblee PGA Championship Q&A: Rose’s huge McLaren risk, distracted LIV pros and why Aronimink suits the bombers

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PGA Championship week is here, and Brandel Chamblee did not hold back in our latest discussion ahead of the season’s second major.

In our 2026 PGA Championship Q&A, golf’s leading analyst made the case that PIF pulling LIV’s funding has left its players competing in a state of confusion, called Justin Rose’s mid-season equipment switch a huge risk at 45, and explained why Aronimink will be a bombers’ delight this week.

Check out the full Q&A below.

Gianni: With the PIF confirming that they’re pulling funding from LIV at the end of the season, what impact do you expect that to have on the LIV players competing at the PGA Championship?

Brandel: I would imagine that they have all been thrown into a state of confusion, and will be distracted, not knowing where they are going to play next year and not knowing exactly their road back to either the DP World Tour or the PGA Tour. Or in Rahm’s case, being tied to a sinking ship for the next few years, likely playing for pennies on the dollar in events that no one cares about or watches.

I doubt this would put him in the best frame of mind to compete at his highest level. Keeping in mind, however, that majors are the only time that LIV disciples get to play in events that matter, so never disregard the motivation they have to prove to the world they are still relevant.

Gianni: Justin Rose switched to McLaren Golf equipment mid-season while playing some of the best golf of his career. What do you make of the change?

Brandel: I don’t really know what to make of Rose switching equipment. It seems a huge risk on his part, even though it is likely, in my opinion, that the clubs he’s playing are similar, if not the exact grinds, to what he was playing previously, with a McLaren stamp on them.

Having said that, at best, it is a distraction when he seemed to be as dialed in with his game as any 45-year-old could be and trending in the majors to perhaps do something that would definitely put him in the Hall of Fame. At worst, given the possibility that these clubs aren’t just duplicates of his old set stamped with McLaren on them, he’s made an equipment change that would take time, and 45-year-old athletes don’t have the time to do such things.

Gianni: Aronimink has only hosted a handful of professional events since it hosted the 1962 PGA Championship. What kind of test does it present, and does a course with less recent major championship history tend to level the playing field?

Brandel: Even though Aronimink has only hosted a handful of meaningful professional events, it has been fairly discerning in who can win there. When Keegan Bradley won the BMW Championship on the Donald Ross masterpiece in 2018, he was the 2nd best iron player on tour coming into that week. When Nick Watney won the AT&T at Aronimink in 2011, he was 2nd in strokes gained total coming into the week.

In 2020, Aronimink hosted the KPMG Championship, and Sei Young Kim won. On the LPGA that year, she was first in greens in regulation, putts per green in regulation, and scoring average on the way to being the LPGA player of the year. And then there is the 1962 PGA Championship won by Gary Player, who eventually became just one of a few players to win the career grand slam on the way to winning 9 majors. It is a formidable test, and if it’s not softened by rain, it will bring out the best in the upper echelons of the game.

Gianni: Is there a specific hole at Aronimink that you think will do the most to decide the winner?

Brandel: The hardest hole at Aronimink in each of the three tour events that have been played there since 2010 has been the long par-3 8th hole, with the par-4 10th being the second hardest, so most of the carnage will happen around the turn, but with the par-5 16th offering opportunities for bold plays and the tough closing holes at 17 and 18, the finish is likely to be frenetic.

Gianni: The PGA Championship has always sat in the shadow of the other majors. What does the ideal PGA Championship look like in your eyes, and what would it take for it to carve out its own identity?

Brandel: The PGA Championship, to whatever degree it suffers from the comparison to the other three majors, is still counted just as much when adding them up at the end of one’s career. Almost 1/3 of Nicklaus’ major wins were the five PGA Championships he won. Walter Hagen won 11 majors, five of which were PGA Championships.

Tiger Woods twice in his career won back-to-back PGA Championships, and those four majors count just as much as the other 11 he won. The PGA may not have the prestige of the other three, but it carries the same weight. Having said that, I preferred the identity that it had as the last major of the year.

Gianni: You nailed your Masters picks. Rory won, Scottie finished solo second, and Morikawa surged to a tie for seventh. Who are your top 3 picks for the PGA Championship and why?

Brandel: I am not a huge fan of majors played on golf courses that have been shorn of most of the trees, although I understand some of the agronomic reasons for doing so and of course the ease with which it allows members to play after errant drives. However, at the highest level, it all but eliminates any strategy off the tee and turns professional golf into an even bigger slugfest. That means that it will likely be a bomber’s delight this week, but fortunately, Scottie Scheffler is long enough to play that game and straight enough to play it better than anyone else.

The major championships give us very few surprises anymore, going back to the beginning of 2012, so the last 57 majors played, the average world rank of the winners has been better than 15th in the world. So look at the highest ranked and longest drivers who are on form coming into the PGA Championship who also have great short games as the surrounds at Aronimink are very challenging. That’s Scottie Scheffler by a mile and then McIlroy and Cameron Young with a far bigger nod towards DeChambeau than I gave him at the Masters.

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A putter that I love and hate – Club Junkie Podcast

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In this episode of the Club Junkie Podcast, we dive into one of the most interesting flatstick releases of the year with a full review of the new TaylorMade SYSTM 2 putters. After spending time on the greens, I break down what makes this design stand out, where it performs, and why it has me completely torn between loving it and fighting it. If you are into feel, alignment, and consistency, this is one you will want to hear about.

We also take a look at some of the putters in play on the PGA Tour last week. From familiar favorites to a few surprising setups, there is always something to learn from what the best players in the world are rolling with under pressure.

To wrap things up, I walk through the process of building a set of JP Golf Prime irons paired with Baddazz Gold Series shafts. From component selection to performance goals, this is a deep dive into what goes into creating a unique custom set and why this combo has been so intriguing.

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From 14 handicap to pro: 4 things I’d tell golfers at 50

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This year my 50th birthday. Gosh, where has the time gone?

As a teenager in rural Missouri, some of my junior high and high school years felt interminable. Graduation seemed light years away. But the older I get, the faster life seems to fly by.

I’m also increasingly aware of my mortality. My dad died recently. Earlier this year, a friend and fellow PGA of America professional and I were texting about our next catch-up. The next message I received was news of his unexpected passing at 48. Shortly after, a woman I dated in college succumbed to cancer at 51.

Certainly, one can share perspective at any age. Seniors help freshmen, veterans guide rookies. But reaching this milestone feels like as good a time as any to do one of those “what would I tell my younger self?” articles.

I’ve had a uniquely varied career in golf. I started as a 27-year-old, average-length-hitting, 14-handicap computer engineer and somehow managed to turn pro before running out of money, constantly bootstrapping my way forward. I’ve won qualifiers and set venue records in the World Long Drive Championships, finished fifth at the Speedgolf World Championships, coached all skill levels as a PGA of America professional, built industry-leading swing speed training programs for Swing Man Golf, helped advance the single-length iron market with Sterling Irons®, caddied on the PGA TOUR and PGA TOUR Champions, and played about 300 courses across 32 countries.

It’s been a ride, and I’ve gone both deep and wide.

So while I can consult and advise from a lot of angles, let me keep it to a few things I’d tell the average golfer who wants to improve.

1. Think About What You Want

Everyone has their own reason for picking up a golf club.

Oddly, as a professional athlete, I’m not internally driven by competition. That can be challenging, as the industry currently prioritizes and incentivizes competition over the love of the game.

For me, I love walking and being outdoors. Nature helps balance my energy. I prefer courses that are integrated into the natural beauty of their surroundings. I’m comfortable practicing alone. I’m a deep thinker, and I genuinely enjoy investigating the game, using data and intuition to unearth unique, often innovative insights. I’m fortunate to be strong and athletic, so I appreciate the chance to engage with my abilities. Traveling feels adventurous. I could go on.

You don’t have to overthink it like I do. For you, it might be as simple as hitting balls to escape work, hanging out with friends, and playing loosely with the rules and the score.

The point is to give yourself permission to play for your own reasons, and let that be enough.

But if improvement is your goal, thinking about your destination—and when you want to get there—is important, because it dictates the steps you need to take. When I set out to go from a 14-handicap to the PGA TOUR as quickly as possible, the steps I needed were very different from those of a working golfer trying to break 90 in six months. That’s also different from someone who just wants a few peaceful hours outside each week, away from work or family.

None of these goals are better than the others, but each requires a different plan that you can work backward from.

2. There Are Lots of Things That Can Work

One of the challenges of golf is that, although there are rules for playing, there aren’t clear, industry-wide standards for how to best play the game. There’s a lot of gray area.

You might hear a top coach or trainer insist that a certain move is the best way to swing or train. Then you dig a bit deeper and, much to your confusion and frustration, another respected coach or trainer says something completely different. I don’t think anyone is trying to confuse you—at least I hope not. It’s just where the industry is right now.

You have to be careful with advice from tournament pros, too. They might be great at scoring, but they’re also human and sometimes just as susceptible as amateurs to believing things that don’t really move the needle. Tour players might describe what they feel, but that’s not always what they’re actually doing when assessed with technology.

I recently ran a test on my YouTube channel (which connects to my GolfWRX article “How to use your hands in the golf swing for power and accuracy”), and, interestingly, two of the most commonly taught hand actions produced the worst results in the test.

Coaches can certainly help. If you find someone you connect with to help navigate, that’s great. But there are many ways to get the ball in the hole. In the current landscape, you may need to seek multiple opinions, think critically, and use your own intuition to discern what seems true and whose advice resonates with you.

I’d recommend seeking someone who is open-minded and always learning, because things constantly change. Absolutes like “correct” or “proper” should raise a red flag. AI can be useful, but it tends to confidently repeat popular advice, so proceed with caution.

3. Get Custom Fit

If you’re serious about becoming a better player, getting custom fit is hugely important. There’s no sense fighting your equipment if you don’t have to. Most better players get fit these days and, if they don’t, they’re usually skilled enough to work around clubs that aren’t ideal.

If you plan to play for a long time, it’s worth spending a little more upfront to get something that truly fits you and your game, rather than continually buying and discarding equipment.

Equipment rules haven’t really changed significantly since the early 2000s. To stay in business, manufacturers keep pushing those limits. If you pull a bunch of clubs and balls off the rack and test them, you’ll find differences. I’ve tested two new drivers and seen a 30-yard total distance gap. Usually, the issue isn’t bad equipment; it’s that the combination of components simply isn’t the best fit.

It’s like wearing a new pair of floppy clown shoes. Sure, they’re shoes—but you won’t sprint your best in them compared to track shoes that fit perfectly.

Be wary of what’s called custom fitting, too. Sometimes the term is used as a marketing strategy rather than an actual fitting. In some retail settings, fitters may be incentivized to steer you toward higher-priced components. That doesn’t automatically mean it’s not the best fit, but you should be aware of potential biases.

I learned a version of this lesson outside of golf. Years ago, I bought a tennis racquet at a big box store from a seemingly knowledgeable employee who thought it would suit me best. The racquet gave me tennis elbow, and I spent months recovering with rest and acupuncture. The next season, I invested more time and money to find what actually fit me, and I walked away with something amazing that I still play with years later.

So if you’re going to get fit, be smart about it.

Find someone you believe has deep knowledge—possibly with certifications, but not necessarily. Make sure there’s a wide inventory across many brands. Check recent reviews for the individual fitter if possible. Make sure you trust that the fitter has your best interests at heart. If they’re wearing a hat or shirt with a specific brand’s logo, proceed with caution. Unless you specifically want a certain brand or look, be wary of upsells, especially if two options perform nearly the same.

Also, while golf is called a sport of integrity, there’s a thread of manipulation in the industry. I once drafted an equipment article for an industry magazine, structured just like one of their previous popular stories, with matching word count and great photos. The assistant editor loved it; it was useful to readers and required little work on his part. But the editor-in-chief nixed the story. When I asked why, I was told it was because I wasn’t an advertiser. It turned out the article I’d modeled mine after was a paid ad cleverly disguised as editorial content.

I really dislike games, clickbait, and fear-based manipulation. I hope this changes, but golfers deserve to know it exists.

4. Distance and Strategy Matter

There’s a real relationship between how far you hit the ball and your scoring average, even at the PGA TOUR level.

I experienced this early in my pro career. I started as a power hitter, swinging in the high 120s and breaking 200 mph ball speed with a stock driver.

Back then, some instructors advised swinging at 80%, so I tried slowing down for more accuracy. That worked fine on shorter, tighter courses. But on longer setups, I was coming into greens with too much club, and par 5s stopped being

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